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Help I need some urgent advice :(

My wife has left me and text me to say its over.

We have no children together, but children of our own from previous relationships.

I put £40,000 down on our home as a deposit this was my savings, I then paid a further £63,0000 off the mortgage when I won a legal case for an injury I received. This was before we were married. The mortgage is in my name with my stepson as I needed his income to obtain the original mortgage amount.

At the purchase point of the house the solicitor drew up a contract stating I own 99% of the house and my stepson owns 1%, this was signed and witnessed.

My wife is not on the mortgage due to still being named on a mortgage with her previous partner.

The house is worth approx £160,000 with a mortgage of £47,000.

My questions are -

Do I need my wife to agree to the sale of the home?

What entitlement is my wife due from the sale of the home?

I fully understand 1% of the sale price will have to be paid to my stepson.

Sorry its so clinical but I am struggling and this is something which I know needs dealing with.

Thank you in advance

Comments

  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    If your and your step-son's names are on the deeds, you will need his agreement to sell it.

    Lots of divorce advice here - https://www.wikivorce.com/divorce/
  • double_mummy
    double_mummy Posts: 3,989 Forumite
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    you wont needs wifes permission to sell but depending on how long you were married she may have a claim on some of the equity

    is the wifes name on the deeds?
    has she registered an interest with the land registry?
    The only people I have to answer to are my beautiful babies aged 8 and 5
  • mrsides
    mrsides Posts: 65 Forumite
    We were married four years last week!

    This is an awful situation to be in but I just need advice

    Thank you
  • mrsides
    mrsides Posts: 65 Forumite
    Sorry no my wife has not got her name on the deeds or with the land registery
  • double_mummy
    double_mummy Posts: 3,989 Forumite
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    then she cant stop a sale

    you need to go and see a solicitor (get one that does a free half an hour)

    it will be classed as a short marriage as it is under 5 years

    start divorce proceedings and get the financial order done
    The only people I have to answer to are my beautiful babies aged 8 and 5
  • Imp
    Imp Posts: 1,035 Forumite
    If she makes a claim on the equity in the house, you could claim against the equity in her/her ex's house (obviously with the suggestion both parties agree to not claim against the other's housing equity)
  • Seanymph
    Seanymph Posts: 2,882 Forumite
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    Divorce is usually in three parts - the ending of the marriage, the agreement of the children, the financial agreement.

    You can finalise the ending of the marriage and the finances later, but generally it makes sense to do it all at the same time.

    when you see your solicitor they will offer you better advice than a forum.

    the only thing I know for sure from your post is that your damages are ringfenced and do not form part of the marital assets when it comes to divorce.
  • marywooyeah
    marywooyeah Posts: 2,672 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    if you've only been married four years it's unlikely your wife would have much, if any, claim over your property.

    was there ever any agreement between you that the house would be for the benefit of both you, despite it only being in your name?

    has she contributed towards the house in any way which would increase it's value, eg contributing towards repairs or redecoration?
  • Land_Registry
    Land_Registry Posts: 6,315 Organisation Representative
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    then she cant stop a sale

    you need to go and see a solicitor (get one that does a free half an hour)

    it will be classed as a short marriage as it is under 5 years

    start divorce proceedings and get the financial order done

    I cannot provide legal advice but one additional thing to be aware of is that she may have rights under the Family Law Act and she may seek to protect her interest on the register - see our online guidance as to how this is achieved.

    Now, whilst registering such an interest may not mean she can 'stop a sale' the effect is broadly the same if you are referring to a normal sale to a completely new owner for full market value. In essence any prospective purchaser would become aware of the interest as registered and would be extremely unlikely to proceed with any sale simply because the spouse has registered her rights of occupation.

    The fact that she has left and is not actually living in the property is unlikely to be sufficient to placate a buyer as the interest still exists unless the marriage is ended (divorce/court order or one of you dies). Many spouses will register their legal interest whilst the issues around the house/divorce are resolved.

    That is not to say that she will but just something to be aware of in light of other postings.
    Official Company Representative
    I am the official company representative of Land Registry. MSE has given permission for me to post in response to queries about the company, so that I can help solve issues. You can see my name on the companies with permission to post list. I am not allowed to tout for business at all. If you believe I am please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com This does NOT imply any form of approval of my company or its products by MSE"
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