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Neighbours + Rotten Veg

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  • Buzzybee90
    Buzzybee90 Posts: 1,652 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    I'd throw it back, I'm not saying that's what should happen but I know I would!

    If it keeps happening I agree about trying to catch it on video.
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Thanks guys. My sister's PC is by the window overlooking the fence so think will knock up some improvised CCTV with a webcam.

    I've never known anything like it - really bizarre!
  • BigAunty
    BigAunty Posts: 8,310 Forumite
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    I wouldn't confront her, she is clearly unstable/abusive so its not going to be a productive chat.

    I would do as you have suggested, discretely capture video evidence in case things escalate. In absolutely no way, shape or form would I give them the impression they were under surveillance as it's likely to be very provocative to her.

    It's annoying but at the end of day,its a few bits of veg to clean up but its worth collecting evidence now in case its the early stages of a campaign of nuisances and intimidation.

    If this is a worry, I'd also install a hidden camera overlooking the front, too, in case vandalism is direct there.

    My parents suffered from a neighbour's visitor who used to throw her cigarette butts directly into their garden. In their case, it was because they'd had an argument with her over-charging us kids when we bought ice-cream from her (she had the local ice cream van) so it was very much her way of insulting them.
  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    I would go round there, and shove it in their faces!!
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    Put it on the compost heap and thank them profusely? That'll annoy them.
  • swingaloo
    swingaloo Posts: 3,620 Forumite
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    I had exactly the same problem with my ex neighbour, I got used tea bags, apple cores and banana skins????

    For a few days I let it go but when I realised it was going to be a daily thing I changed tack.

    Each day I picked them up every day and put them through the neighbours letter box with a note. Sometimes I wrote 'Returning these in case you wonder where you lost them' or maybe 'Thanks, but we don't need these so Im returning them to you'.

    I got some filthy looks but it stopped then doing it. They could hardly come round to complain.
  • pogofish
    pogofish Posts: 10,853 Forumite
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    Person_one wrote: »
    Put it on the compost heap and thank them profusely? That'll annoy them.

    Yup - My neighbours often throw rotten veg and other such waste over for my compost heap.
  • krlyr
    krlyr Posts: 5,993 Forumite
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    Imagine it would be considered anti-social behaviour
    http://www.nfh.org.uk/resources/Articles/asbo/index.php
  • MrsAtobe
    MrsAtobe Posts: 1,404 Forumite
    If you can catch the husband on the way into his house, then tell him what is going on. If you don't fell comfortable asking her (and I wouldn't blame you) then collect evidence and present it to Enviromental Health/Housing Association, whichever is applicable.

    I do feel for you aileth, in my time I've had lumps of concrete and used tampons thrown into my back garden by the ex neighbours-chav-scum-from-hell, along with less offensive items.
    Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

    If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
  • Big_Tree
    Big_Tree Posts: 241 Forumite
    If she has a car I would throw fish heads in the garden near the car at night......The seagulls will take car of the rest.
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