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  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    Hi foggy and welcome. Please try and ignore some comments that you receive, many of us on here follow the forum rules and don't do benefit bashing. I wish you well on getting rid of your debts, after all isn't that what we are all trying to do on the debt free wannabee thread?

    Chin up and keep posting
    Puzz
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  • ellerose
    ellerose Posts: 202 Forumite
    Oh for goodness sake, she took a pasting on her last thread, can we just let her get on with the debt busting and move on! The point's been made.
    Debt at LBM July 2013: [STRIKE]£46,085.88[/STRIKE] :eek: Debt today: £36,501.67

    20.8% down, 79.2% to go!

    The quicker I'm debt free, the quicker I'll be Mrs. H! Date to beat: April 2018
  • ellerose
    ellerose Posts: 202 Forumite
    You've made your point, and clearly trolling since all of your 4 posts are on here. We heard you. Move.
    Debt at LBM July 2013: [STRIKE]£46,085.88[/STRIKE] :eek: Debt today: £36,501.67

    20.8% down, 79.2% to go!

    The quicker I'm debt free, the quicker I'll be Mrs. H! Date to beat: April 2018
  • -taff
    -taff Posts: 15,051 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Cynical Consumer, you might be interested to know I've reported your posts because even if that's your opinion, making it once is more than enough.

    Continuously making the same one just identifies you as a troll with an axe to grind.
    Non me fac calcitrare tuum culi
  • angelaf_3
    angelaf_3 Posts: 278 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I didn't read your other thread at all but if I've picked rightly from this one that you go out to work and your husband looks after the children, where's the problem? This is the 21st century and if someone, man or woman, decides to stay home and look after their children that is their choice. The same as both parents deciding to work.


    Op is not refusing to pay debts and is not the first and won't be the last to be in debt unfortunately (that isn't meant to be a derogatory comment on any individual but an acknowledgement of the problems it brings, emotional and practical). The op has said they have realised their mistakes and are trying to put them right whilst attempting to build a better future for them all the same as most people on here.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 30,570 Ambassador
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    Hi,
    People come to this forum for debt advice, not lifestyle advice, we all have different reasons why we are in debt, people rant on that folk should not have children if they cant afford them, surely then people shouldn't buy new cars if they cant afford them, but they do, the same goes for running up Hugh credit card debt, we know we shouldn't, but we do, sometimes we have to do things because, at the time, there is no other way, if the OP wants a large family, surely that is up to her, after all the window is small in this area, and she may never have all the money she needs, who does nowadays ? people should keep there comments to the subject matter in question and leave private lives and choices well alone.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • maganan
    maganan Posts: 254 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Well said!

    Good luck and positive thoughts to OP

    X
    Final no going back LBM 20/12/10
    Debt Jan 2011 [STRIKE]£28217.65[/STRIKE][STRIKE][/STRIKE] DMP start 01/02/11 -[STRIKE][/STRIKE]
    Debt free[STRIKE][/STRIKE][STRIKE][/STRIKE]26 September 2014 :):beer:
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