taking his house because of me

tigerfeet2006

Hi Wight and welcome to the boards.

Can I suggest that you start your own thread with this question on as more people will see it and you will get information just for you rather than hijacking another persons thread.

I am sure there will be someone along soon with some advice if you just hang on in there unfortunatly I don't know much about the housing side of things.

Wight_Diamond

Will do tiger.

cheers

SUESMITH_2

i so feel for you, my oh was being pushed towards bankrupcy when his business failed, luckily we had some very good advice that pointed out the problems with the house if we did thatwe're still together, in fact wedding anniversay today 19 years mainly poorer lol.at times i truly had had enough but i love him dearly and stuck it out although i know lots dont. at times i could see no end to the hell and survived day by day, every day a bonus

crutches

thanks to all for the info on here

plumduff-2

Pinky, trustees do go in for the kill intitialy but there is a lot of room for negotiation with the right advice.. Im not sure a solicitor will give you that advice.. they are not well versed in insolvency law for starters..

You need to see an IP...

On DHUK we have an IP on board.. brin.. he has helped loads of people, with these sorts of problems - whether negotiating IPA/O's or advising on BROs.. and property issues..

So IP advice for free.. dont get that very often... however, dhuk is having major maintenance done at the mo, which means for most of this week it will be down... dhuk have put it in maintenance mode though over this weekend, so maybe if you have a look on, brin will mooch about and be able to advise how to negotiate.. (bear in mind though any posts at the moment are liable to be lost when the site goes live again after maintenance is complete..

One last point.. you say yousecretly get into debt.. would it be a wise move to have your income paid into your hubbys acocunt and allow him to draw your money out as and when you need it.. CC and loans will be nreachable due to your CRF being down the pan at the mo..

Hope you get this sorted.. x