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  • longtermplanner
    longtermplanner Posts: 1,442 Forumite
    £100 for a cup of coffee sounds like a good deal to me :)
  • Mylo_The_Moggy
    Mylo_The_Moggy Posts: 278 Forumite
    27col wrote: »
    My Wow was referring to the fact that you apparently had a loan of a size sufficient to attract that amount of PPI. Not the fact that you got it all back.

    What has that got to do with it? Everyone has their own personal circumstance as to why they have/had a large loan.

    My hubby got £14,000 PPI back, so not all that unusual really. The loan was just the one topped up over the years, it does happen.

    Thankfully we got out of debt about 4 years ago.
  • greenface
    greenface Posts: 4,871 Forumite
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    markwoods39 wrote: »
    Well I Text my ex to ask for the money back and she said she will pay £100 per mth !!!! have to wait and see now. She did ask to come over for coffee NO chance lol
    If your happy to be tied into payments for the next 12 years with someone you kicked out and wont have a coffee with then go for it . I would be looking for a quicker conclusion to someone on over 40k PA . Good luck with your health
    :cool: hard as nails on the internet . wimp in the real world :cool:
  • bigadaj
    bigadaj Posts: 11,531 Forumite
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    longtermplanner wrote: »
    £100 for a cup of coffee sounds like a good deal to me :)

    Maybe she's after more than a coffee, could be negotiated on a payment by results basis?
  • nathand_2
    nathand_2 Posts: 235 Forumite
    She's offered you £100 a month. You can accept that but on her salary she should be able to pay more.

    Put your personal feelings aside and have her round for coffee. I'm sure if you want to be paid back faster texting is not the right way to go about it.
  • markwoods39
    markwoods39 Posts: 8 Forumite
    To be honest I don't want to meet her or have coffee as she is very good in getting what she want's and she wants me back.Ok I admit it I am weak and I might give in !!!! I really don't want to get back with her. It's just best if we don't see each other.


    I was hoping for more than £100 per mth on the salary she is on but £100 is better than nothing I suppose. Have to wait and see if she starts paying up.
  • Nice_Weather_For_Ducks
    Nice_Weather_For_Ducks Posts: 252 Forumite
    This has got to be a wind up LOL
  • markwoods39
    markwoods39 Posts: 8 Forumite
    Nice_Weather_For_Ducks wrote: »
    This has got to be a wind up LOL



    Glad you find it funny.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Give her a receipt and you keep a copy of all transactions. Get her to sign each one.


    It will be better that way, because as soon as she starts making the payments, she is acknowledging the debt.


    Then if it does go T**ts up, you have something solid to work with.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • markwoods39
    markwoods39 Posts: 8 Forumite
    Thanks McKneff that's good advice
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