Everything Leads Into The (new year) Elite thread

Sunshinemummy

ian_duncan_smith wrote: »

Scamps, whether you decide to meet her or not, tell her that you do want to meet her.

If you have no intention of going, arrange for a meeting with an independent professional at your house at that time. Social worker, Doctor, Victim Support, Insurance assessor etc should do. The point is that if herself or relatives show up when they think you're not in then you will have witness in the house, whose word the court will take over her's, plus the text message to prove she was expecting you to be out of the house.

If you do intend on meeting her..... then emmap seems to have the right idea + video cams?

Be careful of the legality of this.

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frequent

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frequent

Sunshinemummy wrote: »

Scamps, she had left you and either treated you extremely badly, or allowed her family to do this.

Whatever you do, you need to protect your heart, your self esteem, your reputation (from false allegations) and your few possessions (that they have not stole already). I don't know if you have children, but the

You need to proceed with caution, and with the support of good friends. If you go take a friend with you and get another one to house sit.


xxx

Has anyone heard Mrs Scamps side of the story yet ?

Seems a bit premature, to be jumping to conclusions, based on only part information.

Enterprise_1701C

Anyone else watching the insanity that is on Channel 4 at the mo?

locarr

Enterprise_1701C wrote: »

Anyone else watching the insanity that is on Channel 4 at the mo?

Yes, mental isn't!!:eek:

DODO_2

zagubov wrote: »

Coming back from Ts, I stopped at the lights (monitored by a camera)_.An ambulance pulled up behind me with lights flashing so me and another car went through and pulled over in front of the other lanes to let it past. Worried now I'll get a fine and points! :mad:

~I would nt worry - they use common sense - the picture will show you pulling over safely not jumping the lights and speeding off and the next photo will show an ambulance




I had a friend who had an ambulance bearing down on him and couldn't pull over as had a queue of stationary traffic backing up form a slip road so he had to put his foot down to get past and was flashed by a speed camera - nothing ever happened as the next picture showed the ambulance

Sunshinemummy

scamps1966 wrote: »

Sorry, just feels like 13 years of life chucked down the drain!! I know everyone who has separated or divorced goes though this, but it still hurts like F**k . I belong to a number of forums, but this one is the only l ever stuck to as I could see the *family* connection. Sorry, I love you peeps
I've had a wine or two.

It is a grieving process, accept it, enjoy the wine and take care of yourself xx

TrulyMadly wrote: »

scamps...it's not down the drain.....you must have loads of happy memories and the experience has made you the man you are today:)

Very true

Snap-ant wrote: »

Today I purposely 'bumped' into the cat owner's daughter.
After venting my frustration regarding her Mum's careless attitude towards her cat...........
I discover the cat has a cat flap & a bed in their shed. Plus food & litter tray :o:o She does go in the house but prefers to be out
So Bindi is now Pushy - hoodwinking us into thinking her owner left her shut out 24/7.
Plus they have booked her into vets for spaying on Friday :T

But we still have Dilys under the bed

Bless. It reminds me of when we had a cat.

I returned home on Christmas Eve about 10.30 (been working not partying). During the day OH had some home acquired a cat.... she was a little petrified thing, she would shake when we brought her into the house she preferred the outhouse (she had been terrorised/abused by a child, and we had a house full of children). We moved house, she came with us, and then she stopped eating her food needed worming, and we rarely saw her. I knocked on the neighbours door and asked if she had seen the cat, she had... the cat slept on her bed every night and loved her child freed house. When we moved I asked about the cat, she was clear it was hers now.. phew!

Cats are very clever creatures!

:D:D

Enterprise_1701C

locarr wrote: »

Yes, mental isn't!!:eek:

That is the biggest understatement of the year!:eek::eek:

rhosynbach

frequent wrote: »

Has anyone heard Mrs Scamps side of the story yet ?

Seems a bit premature, to be jumping to conclusions, based on only part information.

scamps is our friend part of the elite family of course we will support him and believe what he says its what the elite do best helping each other