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Do you have to love a house to buy it?

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  • Morley
    Morley Posts: 4 Newbie
    Personally I think you do have to 'love' the house as you may end up living there for a long time. In my experience when you find the next house that you 'love' you'll be glad that you lost out on the first as the second will be nicer!
  • Redbedhead
    Redbedhead Posts: 1,131 Forumite
    nelly wrote: »
    Do you have to love a house to buy it?

    If your a daft illogical bird .....yes

    If your a bloke then no..............we love Baywatch :)
    Wow - not that you are sexist or anything.

    I happen to be a 'bird' that isn't daft or illogical but does like Baywatch.
    MFIT No. 81
  • rlc22
    rlc22 Posts: 385 Forumite
    I don't love the house that we're in the process of buying....

    Currently it needs a lot doing to it, compared with our flat that's had everything gutted and re-fitted and looks amazing.

    BUT, the house is in a fantastic area and we can change all the things that I don't particularly like and once it's to our taste we will both love it (and hopefully have added some value to it too ;))
  • Redbedhead
    Redbedhead Posts: 1,131 Forumite
    rlc22 wrote: »
    I don't love the house that we're in the process of buying....

    Currently it needs a lot doing to it, compared with our flat that's had everything gutted and re-fitted and looks amazing.

    BUT, the house is in a fantastic area and we can change all the things that I don't particularly like and once it's to our taste we will both love it (and hopefully have added some value to it too ;))
    I know what you mean. The first house we offered on was the same as this. Wasn't the right size, was in a horrible mess but was in a great location with huge gardens and masses of potential.
    MFIT No. 81
  • azjh77
    azjh77 Posts: 925 Forumite
    On the flip side...I HATE my house, just walking in to it depresses me, I find any excuse I can to not be in it. I really want to move....yet I loved it when moved in 6 years ago...strange...



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  • Redbedhead
    Redbedhead Posts: 1,131 Forumite
    azjh77 wrote: »
    On the flip side...I HATE my house, just walking in to it depresses me, I find any excuse I can to not be in it. I really want to move....yet I loved it when moved in 6 years ago...strange...
    Do you know what has happened to make you hate it?
    MFIT No. 81
  • If you had never seen 'the one that got away', would you been contented with this house? yes/no. There's your answer......
  • Sarahsaver
    Sarahsaver Posts: 8,390 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I think you have to love a house. It has to feel right. When OH suggested we move from this house I was nearly physically sick. We have 3 floors, large windows, v high ceilings, loads of original Victorian features, and SPACE. I really would not want to move somewhere either smaller or more modern.
    Member no.1 of the 'I'm not in a clique' group :rotfl:
    I have done reading too!
    To avoid all evil, to do good,
    to purify the mind- that is the
    teaching of the Buddhas.
  • wecanhelpu wrote: »
    This is a very silly thread

    I dont think so either ... this has helped me loads.

    I am moving from a 4 bedroom house to hopefully a 2 bedroom. I have seen 1 that I thought was ok, but wasn't sure whether to even view it as I didn't exactly love it. But it is in the perfect location and no work is needed. Now I think I will def view it. I always thought that you should automatically fall in love with the house, but after reading this I am going to lead with the head and not the heart as for me too this will be somewhere just to eat and sleep.
    Good manners cost nothing -
    Bad manners cost friends !
    Murphys No More Pies member #213
  • wecanhelpu
    wecanhelpu Posts: 630 Forumite
    Well done and best wishes.

    We got there in the end

    :T


    just waiting for redbedhead to make her mind up
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