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Young Cat and Busy Road

Hi, bit of advice if you'd be so kind...
We're currently looking after my son's girlfriend's young male cat whilst they are moving house. He's a little sweetie but not used to going outside, problem is we live on a very busy main road, although the back yard backs onto other gardens. I'm not letting him out at the moment because of the fear he'll venture out onto the front. I've got him toys, scratch post etc. and he is good with his litter tray.
I do feel sorry for him as he meows at the back door (I have let him out with me at the back but he wants to go off exploring so I had to grab him back in).
I lost a dog a couple of years back because someone left a gate open and he followed them onto a main road.
Now I know people do have cats near roads but how do you get them to be traffic aware?

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  • emmy05
    emmy05 Posts: 2,085 Forumite
    personally i wouldnt let him out anyway, incase he gets used to being where you are, an then hes going to be uprooted back to your sons girlfriends when shes moved. if you do feel like taking him out, then get him a collar an use a lead on him. my mum did this to both of her cats round the garden, admittedly theyre more house cats but theyve gotten used to knowing their boundaries when outside.
  • Better_Days
    Better_Days Posts: 2,742 Forumite
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    I wouldn't let him out, especially as you are looking after him temporarily. At our last house we kept the cats in for nearly 3 months (long story!). But they got used to it.

    We moved again a week or so ago and we are keeping them in again. They do meow a bit, but distracting them with one of those feather toys on a stick helps.

    Cats just tend to dash across a road, and the busier, the more chance of an accident. I think the best thing to do is to invest in some cat toys to keep him entertained while you keep him safely in.
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  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    yes, I agree. Keep him in for now - you can buy cat leads and harnesses quite cheaply, if you want to take him for a stroll round the garden.
  • Raksha
    Raksha Posts: 4,569 Forumite
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    Although a busy road is less likely to be a risk than a quiet country riad, ironically, I would keep him in. If the road is busy, he will probably naturally stay away, country roads don't tend to be busy and become little threat until that one car cimes past (I've lost count of the number of cats I lost when living in a tiny village :( )
    Please forgive me if my comments seem abrupt or my questions have obvious answers, I have a mental health condition which affects my ability to see things as others might.
  • bluebeary
    bluebeary Posts: 7,904 Forumite
    I would not let him out, other cats in the immediate vicinity have already established their territory and a new cat in that territory could cause problems, be it fights or the cat you are looking after to run from confrontation in any direction wether he is aware of roads and traffic or not


    which is precisely what happened to our beebs, its best to keep him inside please
  • gettingready
    gettingready Posts: 11,330 Forumite
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    absolutely keep him in - unless you got a very secur harness and lead for him

    he is not used to going outside so he is not missing anything

    cat in a new place is likely to wander off and dissapear

    always advised to keep any cat in for at least few weeks in any new place anyway - will he be staying with you that long?

    is he neutered/vaccinated?
  • catkins
    catkins Posts: 5,703 Forumite
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    I wouldn't let him out. I am not sure the majority of cats ever learn about roads and cars.

    Over the years I have lost a few cats thanks to cars. This year two of my cats were run over and killed and my road is not that busy. I don't plan on having any more as I can't take the sadness and upset
    The world is over 4 billion years old and yet you somehow managed to exist at the same time as David Bowie
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