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Invited for Diwali, what to bring?

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Yolina
Yolina Posts: 2,262 Forumite
Some of my neighbours have kindly invited me over on Sunday for Diwali :j but I am not sure what to bring them.

The few time I've been over to theirs before (no particular special occasion), I've always baked a cake or something but I'm sure there will be plenty of food as it is :rotfl:
I guess I can't go wrong with flowers but wondering if anyone has any suggestions :)

TIA


Edit: Oh yeah, been told there was no need to bring anything, but there is no way that I'm turning up empty-handed :p
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  • daisiegg
    daisiegg Posts: 5,395 Forumite
    Do they drink? My ex was Hindu and their Diwali celebrations (well, all their celebrations really!) were very alcohol fuelled. They would have gladly welcomed a guest bearing a bottle!
  • hgotsparkle
    hgotsparkle Posts: 1,282 Forumite
    I know Diwali is the festival of light so some scented candles?
  • Rummer
    Rummer Posts: 6,550 Forumite
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    How lovely! Why not make a tray bake or something sweet that will last or if you really think food is not a good idea then nice sparkly juice for those who don't drink :D
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  • cte1111
    cte1111 Posts: 7,390 Forumite
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    Fireworks!
  • Angelicdevil
    Angelicdevil Posts: 1,707 Forumite
    daisiegg wrote: »
    Do they drink? My ex was Hindu and their Diwali celebrations (well, all their celebrations really!) were very alcohol fuelled. They would have gladly welcomed a guest bearing a bottle!

    :eek: I'd get a slap for turning up at my relatives with alcohol on Diwali!

    Fireworks are a great idea :D also Indian sweets like gulab jamun, penda or barfi.
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  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    Why Indian Sweets? sweets are sweets in any language! I think a traybake is a good idea - how about Sticky Toffee cake? just like the pud only in cake form! I have a brill recipe if you would like it just let me know and I will either post it or PM it!
  • Angelicdevil
    Angelicdevil Posts: 1,707 Forumite
    meritaten wrote: »
    Why Indian Sweets? sweets are sweets in any language! I think a traybake is a good idea - how about Sticky Toffee cake? just like the pud only in cake form! I have a brill recipe if you would like it just let me know and I will either post it or PM it!

    Because Indian sweets are different to English sweets and for certain festivals carry significance. I'm guessing you've never had/seen Indian "sweets".......

    So no, they're not the same.
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  • sharnad
    sharnad Posts: 9,904 Forumite
    :eek: I'd get a slap for turning up at my relatives with alcohol on Diwali!

    Fireworks are a great idea :D also Indian sweets like gulab jamun, penda or barfi.

    Barfi always gets my vote
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  • daisiegg
    daisiegg Posts: 5,395 Forumite
    :eek: I'd get a slap for turning up at my relatives with alcohol on Diwali!

    Fireworks are a great idea :D also Indian sweets like gulab jamun, penda or barfi.

    Well, they used to have lots of big celebrations and parties and they all drank a lot! But I did ask IF the OP's neighbours drink, I didn't just assume ;)

    Presumably they will have the Indian sweets and food and so on covered. I would find it slightly strange to take specifically Indian foods to an Indian person's gathering. Like taking my own pasta dish to an Italian family's home. I would assume they will be the experts and have that side of things covered!
  • Indian sweets look a bit like coconut ice, but they're not as sweet and they're a bit oilier.
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