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Agreeing a move date?

The vendors have suggested a date of Oct 21st for competition.

We would rather move at the end of November as the lease on our rented flat doesn't finish until December.

Is it ridiculous to ask them to wait another 7 or so weeks?

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  • lee111s
    lee111s Posts: 2,987 Forumite
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    It's quite a long time if they're ready to move now. Is there a chain involved?
  • lion-o
    lion-o Posts: 67 Forumite
    Top of chain is an empty house by a developer.

    Middle of the chain is a family of 4.

    We're at the bottom.
  • Seabee42
    Seabee42 Posts: 448 Forumite
    As moving is often a stressful and drawn out process, I suspect most people would be unimpressed at such a long delay.

    Having some overlap means, you could decorate when the place is empty and move your stuff in gradually.

    As the day is by agreement you can but ask.
  • kingstreet
    kingstreet Posts: 39,335 Forumite
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    Everyone puts forward their preferred dates and a compromise is eventually reached on which everyone agrees.

    Then you exchange contracts.

    You should not give notice on your rental until you exchange.
    I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.
  • Kynthia
    Kynthia Posts: 5,692 Forumite
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    The family probably want a day during school half term and won't be happy waiting that long. To be honest I don't think anyone would. Are you giving more than a month's notice on your rental or is it because you'll just miss your notice date this month?
    Don't listen to me, I'm no expert!
  • Better_Days
    Better_Days Posts: 2,742 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Seven weeks is a really long time, especially considering how long everyone has probably been waiting while the legal process is gone through - probably 8 - 12 weeks. By the time exchange is imminent most people just want to get on and move with maybe 2 weeks between exchange and completion.

    You can but ask though, but be prepared for a refusal.
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  • lion-o
    lion-o Posts: 67 Forumite
    We have to give 2 months notice on our flat, and it isnt cheap, £1300 pcm.

    Seems like a waste paying rent and a mortgage at the same time, plus we can only just afford to do so.
  • Kynthia
    Kynthia Posts: 5,692 Forumite
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    Are you sure you have to give two months? Has your fixed term ended now? If you are in a statutory periodic tenancy then you usually have to give one month aligned with the rental periods and the landlord has to give you two.
    Don't listen to me, I'm no expert!
  • Also depends where you are - if in an area of rising prices your seller could well say that if you don't exchange and complete quickly he might as well remarket the house and get a higher price and he would have a fighting chance of completing the sale in 7 weeks!

    If not then the chain may be prepared to agree 7 weeks for the sake of certainty - but you are pushing it!
    RICHARD WEBSTER

    As a retired conveyancing solicitor I believe the information given in the post to be useful assuming any properties concerned are in England/Wales but I accept no liability for it.
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