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Final Employment Negotiations, Global settlement and Malicious acts

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  • Kingskid
    Kingskid Posts: 18 Forumite
    All, thanks very much for your comments. I will respond.

    IC808, Not sure if that is sarcastic, but Yes, I do write well and was a distinction student at top academic institutions AND that is the reason they are sacking me. I raised the bar! If you like reading as much as I love writing, you may visit this link to learn about academic mobbing :)
    http://bulliedacademics.blogspot.co.uk/2010/02/how-to-get-rid-of-good-professors.html

    By the way, I do not type fast. What took 10 minutes now takes 5 hours and if I feel mentally strong enough, I talk to a computer to reduce physical strain and if I am not able to talk, I use my hands if the several pain killers I now live on will let me work and I balance severe pain and drowsiness.

    I agree, Sleepymans, I did let them and even when my psychotherapist (wonderful person) week in week out, would ask why I let them treat me like a child, I had no answer. I have kept my life on hold in the hope for fairness and equity. I have found it VERY hard to move on because of what I have put in. But reading the wonderful advice I got in 2012, I understand better now. I deferred to authority but authority stinks when people abuse power.

    ILW YES it is mental injury associated with negative stress and reactive depression as well as physical injury associated with fight / flight reaction e.g. chest pain, BP, panic attack and severe pains. I did state I have work-related cPTSD. Any reason for asking?

    LL30, you have been a friend through this. I am now almost at a place of acceptance. I needed validation. I have good days. I am always so happy when I read from you. I imagine how good your life is with your lovely baby and I always smile. While I am too old to have another baby, I believe that like you, I will receive a blessing and laugh last. I will let you know when it arrives :) Double thanks.

    I think it is safe to say case closed! I felt I should tell the tale and answer questions I was so afraid to answer in the height of my fear. Thanks everyone. I consider the times I came here to seek help and your views invaluable in maintaining an objective outlook, knowing things could get nasty probably prevented me from having a heart attack when it did. The few painful insensitive comments (obviously from those who have never been there) made me a little more cynical and tougher, not a bad thing when you face daily battles. I hope I too can be of help to others some day. Hugs and hugs.
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