What should i do

diddydot_2

My boyfreind found a job after being out of work for several months with a brocken leg. He had no income for 5 months. I kept him on my P/T work and my savings. I cared for him. He was not entitled to anything other than NI payments.

He found a job working around the country different citys two weeks ago. He only came back one night for a passport. He told me hes working in a certain city. Then back to our city, But never came home.

Before this he done a job for some one privatly but was working realy late and somtimes never came home. This was two weeks preveous to this job. He told me that he slept on the cliants floor there was no one living in the house. And he used a curtain to cover him. He had dept collector turned up at the door for him from the property he lived in before here. So i was not happy and told him. But he decided to stay on this floor of this property.

The weekend on the friday after the 1st job I asked whats going on just before he started this job. I asked if theres anyone else. He walked out and dissapeared all weekend only came back on th sunday for some cloths for 20 mins. I rang him about 10pm the other night his phone was off. He never turns his phone off. And text me on the saturday telling me were over the weekend before he started this job that take him away working in different citys. After he walked out the night before. When he came for his passport he wanted to sort things out. But i would have to except things as they are. I must except him working this way. Hes been gone for the second week. Told me he does not do confruntations and wants an appology. There has been other women around when we have split up within the week in the past. ?????

thorsoak

??? No questions to be asked? He wants an apology?

You should ask for your keys to be returned - or change the locks - and wave goodbye! This isn't a relationship - you are just a convenience.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life - don't waste it on someone like this!

krustylouise

I didn't want to read and run. I hate to say it but it sounds as though he isn't really interested unless he needs you for something. I know it's difficult when you have been with someone and cared for someone but it sounds like he has been using you. You seem to be a strong independent woman who can support herself, you don't need someone like that leeching off of you. Change your locks, change your number, and move on. Take care and good luck.

ailuro2

sorry, but what Krustylouise said above. Because you're worth it, and he's not.

harrys_nan

He is a user and a loser, dont waste your time or energy on him anymore. I know you must be feeling very upset and confused right now, but you really don't need him in your life anymore. You will get over him although it may not seem like it now.
Change the door locks and just do not respond to him in anyway, let him stew.
take care and and look after yourself x

LandyAndy

Hmmm. New poster, bad spelling, worse grammar, outrageous treatment. These things always make me think troll.

krustylouise

They do me too but I'd rather give the benefit of the doubt at least once.

izziebaby101

LandyAndy wrote: »

Hmmm. New poster, bad spelling, worse grammar, outrageous treatment. These things always make me think troll.

Just for everyones information yes I can see why this could look like a troll but its not. This is my mothers post she has really bad Dyslexia(not sure on spelling) she usually uses MSE for vouchers and money off but she decided to post to get an outsiders opinion.

diddydot_2

Sorry about the spelling i am Dyslexic I dont queit understand the Troll thing either. I just wanted opions on what to do with what i have been presented with over the last few months.

twigpig

Wow. You don't owe him an apology and have the right to know where he is and when he's coming home, but you already know that. You are not in the wrong on any of this.

I also don't like the added info of a curtain whilst he slept on the floor. When people lie, they tend to say too much, this sounds a bit off to me.

Errata

diddydot wrote: »

Sorry about the spelling i am Dyslexic I dont queit understand the Troll thing either. I just wanted opions on what to do with what i have been presented with over the last few months.

Get a life. Without him.