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Dogs are not public property - article

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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
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    spacey2012 wrote: »
    My Dogs love been cuddled and fussed by children.
    And who would want a dog any different.

    Not necessarily what we want but what one gets,...especially with older dogs. Sometimes working dogs not familiar with children are just 'off duty' or are being approached without permission on the job.


    My dogs are all, thankfully, enamoured of children, however, they are not the same with adults and often turn their heads away.

    They alSo refuse all food treats from strangers ( this IS reinforced by me I am afraid)
  • wilykit
    wilykit Posts: 1,188 Forumite
    Whilst my dog is super friendly and laps up any attention, I always prefer people to ask before they stroke him, rather than running up to him and fussing him.

    My mum always taught us not to touch a dog you don't know without asking the owner first.

    I love the fact people want to come and stroke my dog, as long as they ask first :)
    The more one gets to know of men, the more one values dogs.
  • Raksha
    Raksha Posts: 4,570 Forumite
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    But could you tell if your dog was giving the very subtle signs that they weren't happy?
    Please forgive me if my comments seem abrupt or my questions have obvious answers, I have a mental health condition which affects my ability to see things as others might.
  • ineed
    ineed Posts: 4,432 Forumite
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    Raksha wrote: »
    But could you tell if your dog was giving the very subtle signs that they weren't happy?

    I'd think you'd be able to spot the signs, dog turning its head away, not responding to stroking, slight growling or wrinkling of the nose, huffing etc. I have a (nearly) year old cat like that, he only likes attention when he wants it not you and he'll let you know in non agressive ways by walking away from you, turning his back on you or looking away. He runs away from strangers as well no matter the age, friendliness or food they might be offering.

    I always knew the Samoyed I mentioned wanted attention, it would go ballistic when it saw children and attempt to lick everyone to death :p. I still asked though because its polite and I'd want to be asked if it were my dog.
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  • SmallL
    SmallL Posts: 944 Forumite
    With a cat I tend to look at how its acting, is it being vocal and coming up to me or rubbing itself on its surroundings? If yes it likely wants a stroke.

    If the dog was off-lead and displayed similar traits upon passing, or approached me I would stroke it. I would never stroke a leaded dog without asking the owner.
  • Johnmcl7
    Johnmcl7 Posts: 2,838 Forumite
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    I can't say I've ever had this type of problem, the previous labs and spaniels weren't bothered about talking to people so people never talked to them. The current spaniel adores people and is disappointed when they don't speak to him or give him a pet although unless the person appears to want to speak to him I don't allow him over as I realise that can annoy people as well.

    John
  • wilykit
    wilykit Posts: 1,188 Forumite
    Raksha wrote: »
    But could you tell if your dog was giving the very subtle signs that they weren't happy?

    Definitely.

    I'm currently studying animal behaviour too, which helps :p
    The more one gets to know of men, the more one values dogs.
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