Everyone Lobbing Ice-cream (into) Trolleys (with) Excitement

rose28454

Having a really hard day today. DD is having this therapy ( as I said earlier in the week) and its actually making her feel worse about herself( they said it would initially). However everything that has ever been wrong with her is all my fault. She went to bf's to stay last night and I went to her Dad's to scan some childhood photos for DS's wedding. She spent the evening sending me messages saying how bad she feels, that I dont understant and that she does not even want to go to her brothers wedding.
I am determined that the day will go well and its obvious as it is about him she cant stand it. I went to sleep feeling really down myself and I feel like running away from it all.
So this morning sis was at hospital with hubby who has broken her toe and I was texting her for advice. I sent a text to her saying I feel maybe its time DD moved back with her boyfriend and got back on her feet and that financially its draining me as she gives me practically nothing. But I sent it to DD by mistake. So I got in the car and drove to see her and told her what I did and now she is barely talking to me.
I have done my level best to support her in any way I can the last 6 months and dont see what else i can do. I really wanted to enjoy this whole wedding experience with DS's wedding but its seems I cant.
I could scream

dipdap

Thanx for the RSH link :T
I clicked update and then navigated away from the page and then back again and it's still showing in the box on personal details.
I think that's what happened last time, just have to sit and wait ages for it to be verified
Am gonna take DS2 on the train next week with this :T Tiger you better put the kettle on

dipdap

Rose, sending you huge hugs hun
Sorry I don't know what else to say

JulieElizabeth

tigerwhite wrote: »

ooh, have a lovely holiday Izzy. Where you off to?


I didnt get a message after entering (on the personal details page) but it normally works


It's not Sure. It's soft and Gentle (S&G). the peachy/apricot lid called sensitive almond milk and honeysuckle works. and also the purple lavender and patchouli

http://www.mysupermarket.co.uk/Shopping/FindProducts.aspx?Query=soft%20and%20gentle
http://www.mysupermarket.co.uk/Shopping/FindProducts.aspx?Query=soft%20and%20gentle

Is is not purple BODY RESPONSIVE (passion flower and black orchid) ?

They are quite similar and a mix up could be costly!

rose28454

dipdap wrote: »

Rose, sending you huge hugs hun
Sorry I don't know what else to say

I know I dont know how anyone can help me fix it. Was supposed to go shopping with her today for last minute bits but she refuses to go with me now.

tigerwhite_2

neosi wrote: »

a few alterations;)

As far as im aware only the samozas will only work with the pizza against Morries and the Spring Rolls only compare to A's which only work with the curries

Samoza with pizza and Spring Rolls with Curry,

If ya get 4 pizza's the PP is capped at £10 so you can get any 4 sides so less fillers to get

Thanks Neosi... editted..

"BNI (Big Night In) deals at T. 5th Sept
PIZZA (thanks to Neosi)
Buy 2 x cheese pizza 460g and 2 sides of samosas, (plus at least 8 fillers e.g. flump, onion, ginger, carrot etc). Cost of £6 and get a PP back of approx. £5.30. This compares against M.

If you buy 4 cheese pizza and 4 sides for £12, you get a PP capped at £10. So you can buy any sides (breaded mushrooms, wedges, onion rings etc) and therefore less fillers. they come up as N/A so wont impact your shopping or add to your PP.


INDIAN
Buy 2 indian meals (either korma or Jalfrezi) and 2 sides (of spring rolls). Costs £6 at the til, get a PP back of £3.. something TBC.. This compares against A.

zippydooda

tigerwhite wrote: »

I'm doing this post to put on page 1. does it look right?

"BNI (Big Night In) deals at T. 5th Sept
PIZZA (thanks to Neosi)
Buy 2 x cheese pizza 460g and 2 sides of samosas, (plus fillers). Cost of £6 and get a PP back of approx. £5.30.
Or buy 4 cheese pizza and 4 sides for £12 and get a PP of £10 back

Sides that compare (in both the pizza and the Indian deal) are veg samosas (£1.50 v £1.20). You can buy any other sides of course but breaded mushrooms, onion rings and wedges come up as N/A so wont impact your shopping or add to your PP.

INDIAN
Buy 2 indian meals (either korma or Jalfrezi) and 2 sides (either spring rolls or samosas). Costs £6 at the til, get a PP back of ?? "

Can you mix them. I thought one was v A and the other M

Enterprise_1701C

rose28454 wrote: »

Having a really hard day today. DD is having this therapy ( as I said earlier in the week) and its actually making her feel worse about herself( they said it would initially). However everything that has ever been wrong with her is all my fault. She went to bf's to stay last night and I went to her Dad's to scan some childhood photos for DS's wedding. She spent the evening sending me messages saying how bad she feels, that I dont understant and that she does not even want to go to her brothers wedding.
I am determined that the day will go well and its obvious as it is about him she cant stand it. I went to sleep feeling really down myself and I feel like running away from it all.
So this morning sis was at hospital with hubby who has broken her toe and I was texting her for advice. I sent a text to her saying I feel maybe its time DD moved back with her boyfriend and got back on her feet and that financially its draining me as she gives me practically nothing. But I sent it to DD by mistake. So I got in the car and drove to see her and told her what I did and now she is barely talking to me.
I have done my level best to support her in any way I can the last 6 months and dont see what else i can do. I really wanted to enjoy this whole wedding experience with DS's wedding but its seems I cant.
I could scream

Big hugs, sounds like an awful situation.

If she goes to her brother's wedding, is she going to sulk all the time or do her best to make it unpleasant for the rest of you?

Whilst it would be nice for her to go, if she doesn't want to then it might just be best to accept that.

Just my opinion, I know you know best

Just thinking that if you give up on that idea then you may well be able to enjoy the wedding just that bit more

couponqueen123

rose28454 wrote: »

Having a really hard day today. DD is having this therapy ( as I said earlier in the week) and its actually making her feel worse about herself( they said it would initially). However everything that has ever been wrong with her is all my fault. She went to bf's to stay last night and I went to her Dad's to scan some childhood photos for DS's wedding. She spent the evening sending me messages saying how bad she feels, that I dont understant and that she does not even want to go to her brothers wedding.
I am determined that the day will go well and its obvious as it is about him she cant stand it. I went to sleep feeling really down myself and I feel like running away from it all.
So this morning sis was at hospital with hubby who has broken her toe and I was texting her for advice. I sent a text to her saying I feel maybe its time DD moved back with her boyfriend and got back on her feet and that financially its draining me as she gives me practically nothing. But I sent it to DD by mistake. So I got in the car and drove to see her and told her what I did and now she is barely talking to me.
I have done my level best to support her in any way I can the last 6 months and dont see what else i can do. I really wanted to enjoy this whole wedding experience with DS's wedding but its seems I cant.
I could scream

rose this is going to sound awfull but i think you will understand why im say this

its time to live for your self rose lifes to short and yes yr dd had a hard time but she is prown to "NEVER BE WRONG,AND ALL EYES ON HER "
ask her to move out with bf and get on with her life after all if "EVERYTHING IS YOUR FAULT".

THEN what she doing free loading , she cant just pick n choose what bits shes happy with, then make u feel like crap ,

i know you have do your utmost for yr kids and shes being selfish

have you booked that holiday:D hope so rose if not ill be coming to book it for you :eek::rotfl::T

chin up today now and whats yr plans ? any wedding prep, whats left to sort for wedding , also well done on the diet front too :T

Enterprise_1701C

zippydooda wrote: »

Can you mix them. I thought one was v A and the other M

Noooooooooooooooooooooo