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In short, one of my mums best friends of 30 years died recently, she had no family and therefore didn't bother with a will, so my mum has been looking after her for a quite a while.
In that time, she said to my mum, when she was gone, the money left in her safe was for my mum.
My mum has opened it and it contains £1000's.
My mum is concerned at putting so much money into her bank account, as she feels she may be questioned about where all the money has come from.
So I'm really asking is my mum right to be concerned or will she be fine in putting in a lump sum of over £20k in notes and/or a few thousand each month over the next year to two years.
In that time, she said to my mum, when she was gone, the money left in her safe was for my mum.
My mum has opened it and it contains £1000's.
My mum is concerned at putting so much money into her bank account, as she feels she may be questioned about where all the money has come from.
So I'm really asking is my mum right to be concerned or will she be fine in putting in a lump sum of over £20k in notes and/or a few thousand each month over the next year to two years.
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bingo, lottery, gift, sold an antique lots or things spring to mind put some in the bank each month.0
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In short, one of my mums best friends of 30 years died recently, she had no family and therefore didn't bother with a will, so my mum has been looking after her for a quite a while.
In that time, she said to my mum, when she was gone, the money left in her safe was for my mum.
My mum has opened it and it contains £1000's.
My mum is concerned at putting so much money into her bank account, as she feels she may be questioned about where all the money has come from.
So I'm really asking is my mum right to be concerned or will she be fine in putting in a lump sum of over £20k in notes and/or a few thousand each month over the next year to two years.
First off if she hasn't got it in writing that the money in the safe is for your Mum, then it can be classed as theft.
You will find that although you say that she had no family 9 times out of 10 there will be an aunt or uncle or brother or sister you don't know about that is legally entitled to the estate of the deceased person.
Since she left no will all money from the estate legally belongs to the crown and not your Mother.
She will have to apply to the Crown for any money she thinks she is entitled and they will make a decision as to whether she has a legal claim to the money she is trying to claim
You might want to check the government site below to check these facts:
https://www.gov.uk/inherits-someone-dies-without-will
Your mother should have made sure the friend she looked after put it in writing that she was entitled to the Money in the safe.Time is a path from the past to the future and back again. The present is the crossroads of both. :cool:0 -
I think your mum should go and see a solicitor about this. Otherwise it may turn into a very huge nightmare for her.:heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.0
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In short, one of my mums best friends of 30 years died recently, she had no family and therefore didn't bother with a will, so my mum has been looking after her for a quite a while.
In that time, she said to my mum, when she was gone, the money left in her safe was for my mum.
My mum has opened it and it contains £1000's.
My mum is concerned at putting so much money into her bank account, as she feels she may be questioned about where all the money has come from.
So I'm really asking is my mum right to be concerned or will she be fine in putting in a lump sum of over £20k in notes and/or a few thousand each month over the next year to two years.
Your Mum needs to be very careful. Can she prove that the cash is legally hers? She could be accused of theft.
You say that your Mums friend had no family and never made a will, therefore her assets should go to the state.
It will be up to your Mum to challenge this. She should take legal advice. Good luck.You may question anything I say. Just be polite, otherwise you go straight on to my Ignore List, which funds a good old fashioned knees-up every Xmas. Cheers;)0 -
Ok thanks very much, I'll let her know.
It's certainly not worth taking any chances, as my mum isn't poor anyway, so the money isn't vital anyway.0 -
She should just hide it under her mattress, after all, she won't get much interest from a bank account0
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Of course that's exactly the reason for bothering.she had no family and therefore didn't bother with a will
But the will business has been made so off-putting that people find the most unbelievable excuses for not bothering."It will take, five, 10, 15 years to get back to where we need to be. But it's no longer the individual banks that are in the wrong, it's the banking industry as a whole." - Steven Cooper, head of personal and business banking at Barclays, talking to Martin Lewis0 -
It's not Mum's money and it never will be legally.
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....In that time, she said to my mum, when she was gone, the money left in her safe was for my mum....
Possibly a case of Donatio Mortis Causa - a gift made in prospect of death. See this HMRC summary here, http://www.hmrc.gov.uk/manuals/ihtmanual/ihtm14900.htm
To be valid, it would appear that it would be neccessary for your mother to demonstrate that the cash had been delivered to her, i.e. that her friend had given her the key/combination to the safe.
A proper lawyer might well be able to offer a more definitive answer....So I'm really asking is my mum right to be concerned or will she be fine in putting in a lump sum of over £20k in notes and/or a few thousand each month over the next year to two years.
Your mum is right to be concerned. Paying in 20k of cash in one lump sum, or dribbling it in over a period, might trigger a money laundering investigation by the bank.0
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