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  • Savvy - this may seem a little strange (like me) BUT I wonder if you're pulling your aura in so people don't sense you?

    OK I've worked a LOT in the alternative health field and met some wonderful spiritualists and psychics and also been fortunate enough to see auras myself.

    As an example my hubby can do this, pull his aura in and somehow no-one sees him. When in military school in the US he was always the one they sent out to capture the 'enemy' colours. He's 6f' 3" built like a tank but still no-one notices him. I'm sure he's been doing it to me subconsciously when I go to the fridge for the last ......... and he's already eaten/drunk it & I haven't notice. lol

    He can also push people away - this can be disturbing, he can be sat next to me & push and I feel like I'm 100yds away - he only does it to ask me if I can feel anything. It's very strange - has also come in very useful when we have been on hols and there are louts about - a strange look comes on their faces and they run/lope away very quickly.

    I know it's strange but I wonder if you went to see a genuine medium if they could tell you if you are doing this & maybe suggest a way you can open up a bit more - that of course, is if you want to.

    Food for thought, maybe or maybe you think I'm a trifle strange :) No matter we all have our little foibles! lol
  • davemorton
    davemorton Posts: 29,084 Forumite
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    scamps1966 wrote: »
    still waiting for an ironing lady then? :)

    Oh yes, a good one is hard to find you know!!! :D
    “Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
    Juvenal, The Sixteen Satires
  • fairclaire
    fairclaire Posts: 22,698 Forumite
    Savvybuyer wrote: »
    Whereas other people will be engrossed in whoever they are talking to, and the body language of every non-autistic person around them, if you speak to me, I may not respond immediately but I hear everything that you, and nearly everyone else around me, is saying. It's simply that diverting my attention from whatever I'm doing and onto you involves a complete shift in my brain, to drop concentration entirely on what I'm doing and to focus it entirely on what you are saying, then to drop entirely my concentration on you and back again. It's like picking up a whole cabinet and dropping in two yards away. Then picking the whole of it up, in one go, again and putting it back.

    I've read that the autistic person's brain activity in certain areas does not light up. When other humans are around other humans, their brains light up towards each other. Mine doesn't (if I have autism, assuming my diagnosis to have been correct and it most probably is). Apparently, my brain lights up to objects. That however, in my view, doesn't mean that I do not light up to people or that I have no interest in people. On the contrary - I'm just as interested in people as I am in objects and therefore interested in everything and in both, rather than just being interested in people and missing everything else around me.

    Savvy....you light up to me. You also turn my brain lights on!! Maybe the absence of body language and the reliance on the written word here makes the difference? :)
  • Savvybuyer
    Savvybuyer Posts: 22,332 Forumite
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    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.php?p=62799347&postcount=9753

    Oh gosh that's a long post for me to take in at the moment!! (Says this of all people!) I'll look at it and take it all in later - can you remind me on the next thread to do so? Or PM me - if God, or whoever has been given the power to do so, has decided that you have ability to PM. (Hopefully I can open my inbox - who knows??)
  • fairclaire
    fairclaire Posts: 22,698 Forumite
    davemorton wrote: »
    Oh yes, a good one is hard to find you know!!! :D

    need to up your rates of pay :cool::rotfl::rotfl:
  • Savvybuyer
    Savvybuyer Posts: 22,332 Forumite
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    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.php?p=62799349&postcount=9755

    Absolutely it does!

    (After pressing through about six screens in order to be able to reply to you!!)
  • davemorton
    davemorton Posts: 29,084 Forumite
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    fairclaire wrote: »
    need to up your rates of pay :cool::rotfl::rotfl:

    What?? 2 flumps, and a bag of fangtastic on a bank holiday isnt enough??? So how much would you need to do my ironing? :p
    “Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
    Juvenal, The Sixteen Satires
  • davemorton
    davemorton Posts: 29,084 Forumite
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    Now, should I have another glass, or not??? *ponders*
    “Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
    Juvenal, The Sixteen Satires
  • davemorton
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    scamps1966 wrote: »
    Cheers, I seriously think you've just described me!!!
    Frick, What do I do now???

    Embrace it? :o
    “Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
    Juvenal, The Sixteen Satires
  • Savvybuyer
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    Taylor's of Harrogate coffee (227g) all back on 2 for £6. Of course you can all go back to my list as posted months ago and retrieve all the individual Taylor's that I posted on there! I'll get to refinding them at some point!

    >>>>>Carte Noire Coffee - Freeze Dried Velvety & Rich (200g jar)
    T £6.48 vs M £4.00

    Nescafe Original Decaff Jar (200g)
    A £5.49 M £4.00

    Stute Diabetic Marmalade (fine cut orange, 430g) is £1.49 in M - although I don't think that's the offer price!
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