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Tax Credits & Living Together

Hi everyone, my boyfriend and I have decided on living together. I have 3 children he doesn't have any. We are both self employed. I currently get Tax Credits and will be notifying them of change in circumstances when my boyfriend moves in. Although we will be living together as a family we prefer to keep our personal business finances private from each other. Is there any way we can claim tax credits without having to declare our finances to each other? From what I have seen on the form it appears per se that we have to declare our income from our business. Thanks

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  • Caz3121
    Caz3121 Posts: 15,876 Forumite
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    you will need to close your single claim down and open a new joint claim (it is not a simple change in circumstances it is a new claim)
    Don't believe there is any way you can keep your single status for benefits (legally) when you are living together
  • dseventy
    dseventy Posts: 1,220 Forumite
    When you are a couple and decide to live together, that is a commitment from all parties, especially given there are children involved.

    As a couple you share, the bed? The bathroom? Meals? Holidays? Intimate moments? Why not financial details and income? Really?

    As you are living together, you will be assessed on your joint income.

    D70
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  • tonycottee
    tonycottee Posts: 1,332 Forumite
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    dseventy wrote: »
    When you are a couple and decide to live together, that is a commitment from all parties, especially given there are children involved.

    As a couple you share, the bed? The bathroom? Meals? Holidays? Intimate moments? Why not financial details and income? Really?

    As you are living together, you will be assessed on your joint income.

    D70

    Could you tell my wife that?
  • shop-to-drop
    shop-to-drop Posts: 4,340 Forumite
    It's totally up to you both to decide if you want to keep your finances seperate when you live together. However, if you still want to claim benefits for your children you will have claim as a family and so finances will need to be shared.
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  • dseventy
    dseventy Posts: 1,220 Forumite
    tonycottee wrote: »
    Could you tell my wife that?

    I tried the other night, will tell her again ;)

    D70
    How about no longer being masochistic?
    How about remembering your divinity?
    How about unabashedly bawling your eyes out?
    How about not equating death with stopping?
  • theartfullodger
    theartfullodger Posts: 15,793 Forumite
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    If you live together but don't want to share financial details that's fine: No problem: Except some things won't be possible - like any tax credits.... and any other benefits impacted by that change of circumstance.

    Your choice??

    Which of you is wanting to hide what, that's what interests me...

    I've lived with partners not knowing (or vv..) their full financial position: No problem, but I/we weren't claiming any affected benefits...

    Cheers!
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