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jacklink
jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
edited 24 February 2014 at 8:51PM in Child support
......... take care
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  • shegirl
    shegirl Posts: 10,107 Forumite
    Wow,'turned into a right one',nice way to describe your ohs daughter that he has no involvement with.Maybe he should see her rather than just asking about csa and moaning about how she is.

    How did her mother 'force' no contact?

    Why did you ignore a csa letter?
    If women are birds and freedom is flight are trapped women Dodos?
  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    edited 24 February 2014 at 8:52PM
    .......... take care
  • shegirl
    shegirl Posts: 10,107 Forumite
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    If women are birds and freedom is flight are trapped women Dodos?
  • Own_My_Own
    Own_My_Own Posts: 6,098 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Oh ! Are we on 2 threads simultaneously ?
  • shegirl
    shegirl Posts: 10,107 Forumite
    Own_My_Own wrote: »
    Oh ! Are we on 2 threads simultaneously ?

    And both with different excuses for not seeing the child.

    Goldfish springs to mind:D
    If women are birds and freedom is flight are trapped women Dodos?
  • Own_My_Own
    Own_My_Own Posts: 6,098 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    shegirl wrote: »
    And both with different excuses for not seeing the child.

    Goldfish springs to mind:D

    Now you apologise. That is very insulting to goldfish. :rotfl:
  • pelirocco
    pelirocco Posts: 8,275 Forumite
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    jacklink wrote: »
    hello, id just like to say many times ive been on this site and stated my case, some people have thought it unreal, but it has been real to us. some people have called us trolls, but trolls were not.

    weve had some very nasty experiences with both csa and pwc, cant be bothered to repeat, but everything i have posted has been real.

    firstly id like to apologise to those i have offended, (as iv often fought my side with verbal complications) and secondly id like to say hello to those who dont know me.

    weve never had any correspondance from the csa for about 8 years, (people have slated me for this but its true, until about last year) we ignored letter and still heard nothing, so in total we have heard from the csa once in 9 years. (unless thers something ive forgot about), im sure people will remind me.

    anyway the thing is, ive always paid £40 a month out of my wages for a kid that i have no involvement with, (you may think i sound harsh but if youve been though what i have then you would too) anyway ive paid this £40 a month even thou hubby hasnt worked much, no work about, in the last 5 weeks hes had half a day with an agency, it was work he took it.

    the child in question turned 16 in may, do i still pay till september, and is it at the end of september or begining, by the ways shes turned into a right one, she didnt go to school, didnt do exams, and just drinked and smoked her way through the last two years, we have no involvment mother choice (forced).

    hubbys benefits result in receiving zero amount of money will csa no that, ? thank you sorry for long post.

    if i stop in september will csa finally contact ?



    You posted in 2008 about letters from CSA
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  • SingleSue
    SingleSue Posts: 11,718 Forumite
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    jacklink wrote: »
    hello, id just like to say many times ive been on this site and stated my case, some people have thought it unreal, but it has been real to us. some people have called us trolls, but trolls were not.

    weve had some very nasty experiences with both csa and pwc, cant be bothered to repeat, but everything i have posted has been real.

    firstly id like to apologise to those i have offended, (as iv often fought my side with verbal complications) and secondly id like to say hello to those who dont know me.

    weve never had any correspondance from the csa for about 8 years, (people have slated me for this but its true, until about last year) we ignored letter and still heard nothing, so in total we have heard from the csa once in 9 years. (unless thers something ive forgot about), im sure people will remind me.

    anyway the thing is, ive always paid £40 a month out of my wages for a kid that i have no involvement with, (you may think i sound harsh but if youve been though what i have then you would too) anyway ive paid this £40 a month even thou hubby hasnt worked much, no work about, in the last 5 weeks hes had half a day with an agency, it was work he took it.

    the child in question turned 16 in may, do i still pay till september, and is it at the end of september or begining, by the ways shes turned into a right one, she didnt go to school, didnt do exams, and just drinked and smoked her way through the last two years, we have no involvment mother choice (forced).

    hubbys benefits result in receiving zero amount of money will csa no that, ? thank you sorry for long post.

    if i stop in september will csa finally contact ?

    I'm assuming the child is in England? If so, she will have to be in education or training until she is 17.

    See this link https://www.gov.uk/know-when-you-can-leave-school
    We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
    Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.
  • You don't have to pay for someone else's children - only your own.

    Why are you paying for your hubbys child?
    Overactively underachieving for almost half a century
  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    edited 24 February 2014 at 8:50PM
    .......... take care
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