over reacting?

Curious_George_2

Spendless wrote: »

Re this bit, is it possible that other children at your friends house have told your child, we are going to do x, y and z, and friend has said I'll have to ask your mum.

they have only just turned 3 in the last 2 weeks and she doesnt tell them anything until its definitely being done... (just like i dont) or all hell breaks loose,
it is possible that DD over heard some conversations about it, I dont think until you have had a child her age you realise just how damn sneaky they are!
you cant have the same conversations over a 6 years olds head that you can over a three year olds! and the friend may not have realised that...

Angel777

Hi you are being totally rational.

I would have felt exactly the same!

Firstly he took directions from a 6 year old i mean bless her she is only a child and so easily could have given the wrong directions. Secondly he left her there without checking with you first?

It really is totally irresponsible.

You are right to be livid!!!!!

Sorry no idea about the car seat.

Rupa

I think you behaved quite calmly under the circumstances.

Katie~baby

OMG!! I would have gone round and torn strips off him!!

What a fool! Its good that things are amicable with your ex, imagine they werent and he had this strange man drop his daughter on his doorstep unexpectedly! I cant beleive anyone would be so stupid!

lapat

my misses would have probaly been done for murder if that had happened....
especially in the current climate....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1