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Funeral directors asking for more money after we paid bill in full

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  • Fergie76
    Fergie76 Posts: 2,293 Forumite
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    As an organist myself having spent years and years learning and practising, I have no choice but to give you a look of derision and slight amusement.

    So you think £200 an hour is a reasonable rate?
  • halibut2209
    halibut2209 Posts: 4,250 Forumite
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    If you think that £100 only covers 30 mins, you are sadly mistaken.

    First of all there's the obvious travel time. Then you need to be there before any of the congregation arrive and stay until the last person has left. Add to that the time to practice the pieces required, plus paying for the experience and training, then yes. Absolutely

    I had a guy come out to look at a broken washing machine. Took him less than 10 minutes to tell me the drum was broken and couldn't be fixed. Cost me £60. I didn't complain because that's what the rate is. By your reckoning, he's earning £360 an hour.

    Somehow, I doubt he does
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  • System
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    If you think that £100 only covers 30 mins, you are sadly mistaken.

    First of all there's the obvious travel time. Then you need to be there before any of the congregation arrive and stay until the last person has left. Add to that the time to practice the pieces required, plus paying for the experience and training, then yes. Absolutely

    I had a guy come out to look at a broken washing machine. Took him less than 10 minutes to tell me the drum was broken and couldn't be fixed. Cost me £60. I didn't complain because that's what the rate is. By your reckoning, he's earning £360 an hour.

    Somehow, I doubt he does

    I can't say I'm remotely surprised that you're a pianist;)
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  • Slowhand
    Slowhand Posts: 1,073 Forumite
    When did being an organist become a religion? Many years ago our local church organist of 20 years standing was actually an atheist.
  • System
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    Slowhand wrote: »
    When did being an organist become a religion? Many years ago our local church organist of 20 years standing was actually an atheist.

    As the majority of songs you play on an organ are religious its a bit weird if you play the organ but aren't religious!
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  • MamaMoo_2
    MamaMoo_2 Posts: 2,644 Forumite
    Church of England will always be a business. Charging for weddings, baptisms etc.
    I was pleasantly surprised when I was informed that there was no charge for any of these things in the Catholic Church.
    Even at my grandad's funeral, the organist played for free and wouldn't take the payment offered to him. Lovely chap.
    Anyway, yes, £100 is a lot, but it's about right. Obviously when arranging a funeral it's much more helpful to let the funeral directors deal with it all, and worry about costs later, but if you call the local vicar they'll usually give you a list of chargeable extras :)
  • Wicked_witch
    Wicked_witch Posts: 722 Forumite
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    I'm expecting to pay quite a lot for an organist when my husband goes, since they will have to learn the Joe 90 theme tune for when people are coming in and the Thunderbirds one for the end.
  • Slowhand
    Slowhand Posts: 1,073 Forumite
    I'm expecting to pay quite a lot for an organist when my husband goes, since they will have to learn the Joe 90 theme tune for when people are coming in and the Thunderbirds one for the end.

    Stingray or Fireball XL5 (ask him...be aware he'll say yes) in the middle!
  • MamaMoo_2
    MamaMoo_2 Posts: 2,644 Forumite
    I ended up not having a church wedding. I think I was swayed mostly by the fact that the organist point blank refused to play the Imperial March.

    And yes, I did walk down the aisle to that ;)
    Our first dance was also to Tim Minchin's "If I didn't have you".
  • halibut2209
    halibut2209 Posts: 4,250 Forumite
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    I'd have given you a discount if you'd asked me to play that :p

    I had Doctor Who music on the organ for mine.
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