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                    meritaten                
                
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                    just out in porch having a ciggie and this cat runs in! refuses to leave! its obviously well cared for but seems scared. what do I do? leave it there? chuck it out? my instinct is to leave it - it seems a well loved cat but it seems scared and resists my efforts to get it to leave!
my OH is gonna freak if I take it in - but the cat refuses to go and I haven't the heart to just chuck it out. it keeps looking out and then grooming itself like there is no tomorrow!
                my OH is gonna freak if I take it in - but the cat refuses to go and I haven't the heart to just chuck it out. it keeps looking out and then grooming itself like there is no tomorrow!
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            I'd leave it till morning. It will probably feel less stressed after a sleep in a warm place.Sigless0
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            he seems freaked and senses a safe person, who knows what has happened. maybe post some flyers so the original cares can find him.0
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            Let it stay if possible for now, offer some food and milk/water.
 Maybe something has terrified the poor thing and it just needs a bit of time to calm down?0
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            Leave him there if he's calm.
 I came home one afternoon to find a strange cat behind the TV, he was obviously very frightened as he's already pee'd himself, when I tried to get him out he peed all over the sideboard, carpet and sofa, it took me weeks to get rid of the smell. I really, really wish i'd just left him to leave of his own accord.Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear0
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            Phone your local vet and ask for advice. It's not unknown for cats to run into strangers houses in panic and fear after being hit by a car. There's a chance it could have unseen injuries.0
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            Has he gone yet?0
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            Ask your vet to scan him to see if he has a microchip.DONT BREED OR BUY WHILE HOMELESS ANIMALS DIE. GET YOUR ANIMALS NEUTERED TO SAVE LIVES.0
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            Any update meritaten?0
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            Let it stay if possible for now, offer some food and milk/water.
 Maybe something has terrified the poor thing and it just needs a bit of time to calm down?
 Milk is bad for cats.
 http://pets.webmd.com/cats/guide/cats-and-dairy-get-the-facts
 http://www.yourcat.co.uk/Healthy-Cats/can-i-feed-my-cat-milk.html0
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            yes - sorry, I should have posted earlier!
 I sat with the cat for a while and it became calmer and crawled on my lap for a cuddle. it didn't seem injured just scared! perhaps it came across a dog or fox? I was really tired and tried putting cat outside and it sat and groomed a while, looked back at me and sauntered off!
 I think it was just scared and hid behind the first human it saw! I also think I recognise it - but it wasn't wearing the red collar it usually has on........this black cat has visited my garden before a few times but it wears a red collar. Lives up the street I think. she is very well looked after I think, well fed, glossy fur. nosy little beggar who likes to look through my patio doors!0
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