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meritaten
meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
edited 16 May 2013 at 11:20PM in Pets & pet care
just out in porch having a ciggie and this cat runs in! refuses to leave! its obviously well cared for but seems scared. what do I do? leave it there? chuck it out? my instinct is to leave it - it seems a well loved cat but it seems scared and resists my efforts to get it to leave!
my OH is gonna freak if I take it in - but the cat refuses to go and I haven't the heart to just chuck it out. it keeps looking out and then grooming itself like there is no tomorrow!
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  • Rev
    Rev Posts: 3,171 Forumite
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    I'd leave it till morning. It will probably feel less stressed after a sleep in a warm place.
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  • maintenanceman
    maintenanceman Posts: 3,396 Forumite
    he seems freaked and senses a safe person, who knows what has happened. maybe post some flyers so the original cares can find him.
  • zaksmum
    zaksmum Posts: 5,529 Forumite
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    Let it stay if possible for now, offer some food and milk/water.

    Maybe something has terrified the poor thing and it just needs a bit of time to calm down?
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    Leave him there if he's calm.

    I came home one afternoon to find a strange cat behind the TV, he was obviously very frightened as he's already pee'd himself, when I tried to get him out he peed all over the sideboard, carpet and sofa, it took me weeks to get rid of the smell. I really, really wish i'd just left him to leave of his own accord.
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • Phone your local vet and ask for advice. It's not unknown for cats to run into strangers houses in panic and fear after being hit by a car. There's a chance it could have unseen injuries.
  • minimad1970
    minimad1970 Posts: 6,167 Forumite
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    Has he gone yet?
  • moggymutt
    moggymutt Posts: 666 Forumite
    Ask your vet to scan him to see if he has a microchip.
    DONT BREED OR BUY WHILE HOMELESS ANIMALS DIE. GET YOUR ANIMALS NEUTERED TO SAVE LIVES.
  • zaksmum
    zaksmum Posts: 5,529 Forumite
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    Any update meritaten?
  • Pechow
    Pechow Posts: 729 Forumite
    zaksmum wrote: »
    Let it stay if possible for now, offer some food and milk/water.

    Maybe something has terrified the poor thing and it just needs a bit of time to calm down?

    Milk is bad for cats.

    http://pets.webmd.com/cats/guide/cats-and-dairy-get-the-facts
    http://www.yourcat.co.uk/Healthy-Cats/can-i-feed-my-cat-milk.html
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    yes - sorry, I should have posted earlier!

    I sat with the cat for a while and it became calmer and crawled on my lap for a cuddle. it didn't seem injured just scared! perhaps it came across a dog or fox? I was really tired and tried putting cat outside and it sat and groomed a while, looked back at me and sauntered off!
    I think it was just scared and hid behind the first human it saw! I also think I recognise it - but it wasn't wearing the red collar it usually has on........this black cat has visited my garden before a few times but it wears a red collar. Lives up the street I think. she is very well looked after I think, well fed, glossy fur. nosy little beggar who likes to look through my patio doors!
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