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DMP review - don't want to tell them about pay rise!

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  • Time_to_face_the_music
    Time_to_face_the_music Posts: 5,454 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud! Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 15 May 2013 at 7:06PM
    RAS wrote: »
    People have suggested that Payplan is less generous in its plans that Step-change?

    Payplan and StepChange are both considerably less generous than going it alone and using NED CAB DMP plan

    http://mymoney.nedcab.org.uk/moneyadvice/dmp.asp

    I really can't recommend it highly enough and we had no issues moving from managed to self managed. I can see why it's won so many awards and just wish more people knew about the option. If only we had known this when we started off but isn't a little hindsight a wonderful thing :o
    Loo44 wrote: »
    Thanks guys. DMP is with Payplan. Think I'm just in a deep funk at the moment. Nowt to look forward to as end of DMP is so far away. Keep trying to win a little weekend break on competitions, but no luck yet lol. Still grieving for my beloved mum,who died last year, dad found new lady and is keeping me away and then hubby decides to play away from home with work colleague! Someone send me the lucky fairy xx

    You sound like you have gone through a really bad time and deserve some good luck. Hope things turn out better soon.

    If you do decide to go self managed and need any advice, just give me a shout.

    TTFTM x
    LBM 10/1/12 ~ DFW Start 6/2/12: £82,344 ~ Now Zero
    :staradmin:starmod::staradmin Debt free 17th April 2015 :staradmin:starmod::staradmin
    Eternal thanks to the DMP & Mutual Support (no.439) and Payment a Day Threads
    Mortgage free 3rd July 2014 - Grateful thanks to the 2013/14 MFW threads
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    Proud to have dealt with our debt :)
  • Upsidedown_Bear
    Upsidedown_Bear Posts: 18,264 Forumite
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    Loo44 wrote: »
    Thanks guys. DMP is with Payplan. Think I'm just in a deep funk at the moment. Nowt to look forward to as end of DMP is so far away. Keep trying to win a little weekend break on competitions, but no luck yet lol. Still grieving for my beloved mum,who died last year, dad found new lady and is keeping me away and then hubby decides to play away from home with work colleague! Someone send me the lucky fairy xx
    Will she do? :D

    fairy_kitten.jpg
  • Learning2Budget
    Learning2Budget Posts: 1,092 Forumite
    I totally understand where you are coming from. I just got a payrise but it may not be permanent. So my plan is to put some of it into an emergency fundbut also buy the kids a few new bits cos they are growing at a rate of knotts and perhaps buy myself something new cos Im shrinking at a rate of knotts too! I know Im in debt but i am clearing it but everyonce in a while its nice to upgrade! L2B.x
    LBM 2008 [STRIKE]£45,091.23[/STRIKE] eek: now £7889:T Debt free date 18/07/2018 :)
  • Loo44
    Loo44 Posts: 93 Forumite
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    Will she do? :D

    fairy_kitten.jpg

    That is adorable. Thank you sooooooo much xx
  • Standingtall
    Standingtall Posts: 576 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi there :). Unless your pay rise is huge then I very much doubt it would outweigh the cost of living rises in any case. You could admit to the rise (or part of it) and then increase your costs. I would allow your DMP payment to go up by just a small amount that way your creditors at least see it moving in the right direction.

    This works for me as all parties then see a win:T
    LBM August 2011. DFD somewhere post [STRIKE]2025[/STRIKE]2022 :eek:
    Total debts October 2011 circa GBP 17,700 September 2018 GBP 0 DMP with Payplan
    What doesn't kill you makes you stronger:T:D:D:D
  • I wouldn't bother telling them myself Loo44..

    The way I see it, if I told them every time sth changed on my plan, I'd be having a review every couple of months!

    I seem to spend 1/2 of the year just making do, because some costs in the plan have gone up and the other 1/2 either on track or with maybe a little left over. Overall though, the plan is working and the debts are being paid off.

    I see sooo many posts were people feel low, bad or guilty and this is when they're dealing with their debts. I think it's high time we patted ourselves on the back and said...."you know what? I'm doing alright here.....I might just be getting by and not be able to afford luxuries, but I'm working positively to pay-off the debt and not just walking away from them, or trying to avoid them."

    So, to everyone who's on a DMP........from (humble, nobody)me.............well done and keep up the good work :T

    And maybe, just maybe, this is true......."it's all good in the end. If it's not good; it's not the end"



    John on a DMP with 3 years still to go
  • andy1886
    andy1886 Posts: 263 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Debt-free and Proud!
    Sympathise with you . I have been on a dmp for 3 years now and havenot reached halfway in my payback amount . During this time I have increased my payments when a loan expired and my mortgage dropped , but when I finished part of my mortgage I increased the expenditure on my plan to hide the figures and opened a savings account to save for emergencies and also to try full and final settlements if enough gets saved . The creditors who are fair with me will get every penny owed but some if my payments to them increase will raise the interest I pay them so it is to protect myself from them I have chosen to do this , morally wrong but fed up being shafted by these companies . They are encouraging you to do this by not helping out . We have had 1 night out in 3 years , no holidays days out or any treats cut back to the bare essentials and feel we need this to fall back on if any emergencies crop up . Good luck but for me don't tell them about it just increase your outgoings .
  • xgingerx
    xgingerx Posts: 591 Forumite
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    I wouldn't bother, just extra in a savings account fund towards a full and final settlement. I'm with stepchange and its rubbish about having to live on the breadline, they are generous with your allowances and I've been with them 6 years and yes I still have a life and go on a cheap holiday once a year, do not let the dmp rule your life it's too short and remember its only an informal agreement and as long as the debt is coming down that's all creditors want :)
    Dmp Mutual Support thread member No 82
  • Miss_Poohs
    Miss_Poohs Posts: 630 Forumite
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    For what it's worth I'd say nothing and/or ask them to review. It's all very well people saying just knuckle down and get on with it, but when you're looking at a long term DMP it's no joke, specially when you've had such a rotten time.
    I think you're doing really well - don't feel bad about treating yourself to something new.
    Don't try to keep up with the Joneses - Drag them down to your level - it's cheaper . :p:D
  • DS4215
    DS4215 Posts: 1,085 Forumite
    How much is your pay risen by? - If it is a small amount (<£100pcm) then you could probably hide it among the increased bills (gas/electric/petrol/insurance/food, etc at £1-20pcm each). If it is a larger amount then you will probably need to increase your payments by some amount.
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