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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    They would have sent you for a scan straight away if they were really worried I think - that's what they do round here anyway. Don't overdo things, you'll just make yourself feel worse.

    Right, you are allowed to wash ONE pan, list A FEW things on eBay, but then I want you to put your feet up for a bit, give those lovely girls a cuddle and relax......the world wont end just because you didn't finish your cleaning....lol!

    Thinking about you xxx
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Hi Sea just popped in to see if you are feeling any better...please try to relax and take it a little easier...you probably feel worse this time as you have two little ones to run around after ...try not to worry...I'm sure everything will be fine...
  • Hi Sea
    Hope you feeling a little better. When is your scan?
    Take care
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  • Seaxwyn
    Seaxwyn Posts: 4,896 Forumite
    Hi Sea, it's not surprising you're feeling rough when as well as early pregnancy symptoms you have a lot on your plate - debts, kids, OH problems....

    Please try not to worry, odd aches and pains are normal in early pregnancy.

    Hope you are enjoying the hols (have you broken up yet?) and getting some R&R in between the cleaning and money-making.
    Total debt: 1 January 2007 £[strike]49,387.79[/strike] 1 January 2012 £[STRIKE]19,312.85[/STRIKE] 1 August 2012 £11,517.62



  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
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    Hi

    Thanks so much for all the thoughts - scan is next week sometime, I have to wait for a letter.

    I'm having a really bad day today - it's put all my problems into perspective. A good friend has confided something to me and I'm beside myself with worry now and don't know what to do. I don't think there is anything I can do but I'm really worried about her and her health now. It's to do with drugs.

    Couldn't sleep last night at all worrying and just want to DO something.

    Money saving/creating is going badly too. Need to do something to rectify that too.


    Sea xx
    CCCS DMP:Feb 07
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  • *zippy*
    *zippy* Posts: 2,979 Forumite
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    Hi Sea

    Sorry you are having a bad day :grouphug:

    Would your friend go and see her doctor or could you see if there are any support groups near you. I must be hard worrying about this when you are already feeling a tired. The thing is unless she is prepared to take your advice you can only be a good friend and listen, but you need to look after yourself at the moment so don't don't carry all the weight of it.

    zippy x
  • SarahNeedle1872
    SarahNeedle1872 Posts: 6,166 Forumite
    Hi Sea,

    sorry that ur feeling so rough today, early pregnancy is bad enough, but now with the added worries of debt, ur Oh and now ur friend, u must be feeling really terrible.
    I know that the debt/OH stuff is important to u, and I'm sure ur friend is too, but u really need to look after urself first... try to take plenty of time to rest!

    :grouphug:

    Sarah x
    'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde
  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
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    Just spoke to her - she's now back tracking saying she was drunk etc. I know this is true, but I can see all the evidence of what she said last night. I'm going to go get a card and just send it saying I'm there if she needs me. I don't believe all is fine.

    Right, need to get moving - going to go for a nice walk into town - quite sunny - and get a card and stamps etc. Will also pick up a passport app for william too. Arghh at getting a photo of him too!
    CCCS DMP:Feb 07
    Total:£37,016.47 now £0 DEBT FREE FEB 14

    2022 Decluttering Campaign 49/1011
  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Got things done today :) Not v dfw though - got photos of W at the PO but then was told they were no goo d(grrr) so when to the chemist and they took a photo of him - only £2.99 which was good. So just have to get the form counter signed and checked. :)

    Got 3 layouts done tonight- very rarely do my scrapbooking but find it very relaxing so really pleased to have done some! Have so much from pre-LBM that I don't need to buy for years lol. I do have far too many photos to wade through though and haven't even got on to William's life.

    tomorrow's tasks include looking for house ins quotes, although intial searches haven't found any better than our current, which is with Budget. Tried to go through quidco to get a quote from Lloyds, but at the last point it keeps saying to ring due to technical problems - hmmm.

    Sea xxx
    CCCS DMP:Feb 07
    Total:£37,016.47 now £0 DEBT FREE FEB 14

    2022 Decluttering Campaign 49/1011
  • skysky69
    skysky69 Posts: 436 Forumite
    I just changed our house insurance through Quidco. We were with Direct Line and they had put our insurance up year after year. I tried Lloyds as the cashback was a real incentive, but when I looked at More Than their premiums were really reasonable, much cheaper than what we have already with accidental damage and they have got this gimicky thing whereby if you don't claim for 2 years, you get the third year free. The cashback for them was £75.00. :T
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 607 - Proud To Be Dealing With My Debts :T
    One day maybe I will be debt free :o
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