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Time to be completely honest

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    IDA, that's so sweet, thank you! Is that your dog in your avatar? Also very cute! :D

    Well done on the non-smoking too, looks as though it's going really well. :T
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
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    Hi

    Thanks for all the support :) Made me cry earlier :o

    He's being a pig, but I'll try to have a chat tonight about it. Easier said than done though. Tomorrow he has an app at the hospital so hopefully they'll either tell him he needs an op or he can have the cortisord (sp? is that even what it is?) injections straight into his hip/back. Then he won't be so reliant on the painkillers and can't use that as an excuse for the beer. Feel numb about it all.

    Got to take DD out to dance soon - we went to story time and she had a lovely time :) I did feel rubbish and allowed myself to be swayed and bought 3 posters for her bedroom - at the moment she is really into health and bodies (she wants to be a doctor at the mo!!) and so we got a fruits poster, a vegetables poster and a 'inside your body' poster - my mum has already bought her the skeleton one which she loves. £3 later :o

    Sold another book on amazon which is nice and intend to list as much as possible still tonight on Ebay after my SW class (hope I lose weight but might be wishful thinking!).

    Just hope he wants to go out - not that it's good that he'll be spending money yet again, but at least i won't have to deal with him!!

    Sea xx
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  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Hope that you do manage to sort things out one way or another - so at least you will know where you stand.

    Will be thinking of you.

    BTW, good that DD is into healthy stuff. Posters like that should be encouraged! - See - you are obviously doing something right!!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    I hope your chat with him goes well Sea, as you know, I've (very) recently been there and talking does help - but make it clear to him that the things he says to you aren't acceptable and aren't true.

    I hope you manage to get things sorted one way or another, and come and have a rant/moan/cry about things on here whenever you like.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
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    Thanks again :)

    Washing machine has broken today :( Arghhhhhhhhhhhh

    Freecycle here I come....

    Sea xx
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Awww Sea...sending you and those gorgeous littlies a big hug..it never rains but it pours in your house!!!.....do you know someone that can look at your washer for you?...I bet she loves those posters and that she wants to be a DR and story time sounds fun..you are a lovely person and a fantastic mum and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!!!
  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
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    Thank you Taxi - you're so sweet :)

    OH has managed to fix the washing machine! Thank goodness.

    I killed a bird on the way to SW class :( Only me could then sit and cry about it! I think it was suicidal though as flew straight under my wheels :(

    Back soon

    Sea xxx
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  • savvykaz
    savvykaz Posts: 890 Forumite
    Cortisone (;) )

    Also, just to say, keep your chin up and just take a look at your two beautiful children to see what kind of a mum you are :grouphug:
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Hi Sea ..glad the washers fixed..had that problem the other week...paniced to find out it was just something in the filter!!...how was SW...poor bird...
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    I'd have cried too Sea, so that either makes you normal, or both of us abnormal....either way, we're in good company lol!
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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