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astonsmummy

well sorry phil but you are your own worst enemy, i give up, i really do. you obviously dont want to work as all you do is make excuses as to why you cant work.
I left school with no GCSE'S, i nearly went to jail aged 15, have never really had a stable job, have a criminal record and STILL HAVE MANAGED TO GET A JOB IN THE CARE SECTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are no excuses phil, none at all.

Edinburghlass_2

studentphil wrote: »

I will do, is it best to go to my local job centre or the main one in the city centre?

!!!!!! go to the one you went to with Mummy

TOBRUK

studentphil wrote: »

I know you did. I feel shame in going to ask for help at the job centre though as it feels as if I have failed and I can not look after myself.

There is no shame in going to the job centre (and you ask to see the DISABLED EMPLOYMENT ADVISOR - you don't go in and just see anyone - you ask to see the DEA!) it is not a hand out or an easy option! It is not a matter of not being able to look after yourself - I really do not know where you get these ideas from I really don't

Morglin

studentphil wrote: »

I get it and I will go and see what thy say.

Phil,

For Gawd's sake, I and Tobruk and others have been telling you to do this for what seems like forever.:wall:

I am sure you can do a job, but what with your parents and your personality issues (ie;.....you cannot ever take the initiative, and seem to need validation before you do anything), I really do think that you need help from a DEA to get employment (any employment!)

They will understand your lack of confidence and support you - that's what they are trained to do.:j
At the moment, you are full of what job *you* want, but the facts are that you are not qualified for anything - you have been educated to a certain standard, and that's it.

Employers (in the jobs you mention) require other things, so you need to start with what you can cope with, and then work your way up the greasy pole.............;)

Please, just go and talk to them.....................before I lose the will to live.........:eek:

Ignore your parents, ignore any relatives, ignore the world.............just do it!

Lin :wall:

Edinburghlass_2

November, furthest back the search will allow as it only gives you the last 300 threads started by any user...

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=297971

studentphil

astonsmummy wrote: »

well sorry phil but you are your own worst enemy, i give up, i really do. you obviously dont want to work as all you do is make excuses as to why you cant work.
I left school with no GCSE'S, i nearly went to jail aged 15, have never really had a stable job, have a criminal record and STILL HAVE MANAGED TO GET A JOB IN THE CARE SECTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are no excuses phil, none at all.

I do want to work and get away from sat here at home being all sad. I have set my mind to prove to you all that all your efforts have not been wasted and that I can be a happy person and have a job. I need to do that for myself too have self respect and good feelings again.

Edinburghlass_2

In that case, please read the above thread I linked it, its all there...

studentphil

I declare an end to this thread and my moaning. I will come back and tell you when I have a job and then I will have a happy thread to cheer you all up.

Sugar_Coated_Owl

You could be in town today picking up application forms but instead you'd rather sit here moaning about not having a job rather than doing anything about it.

mariauk

studentphil wrote: »

I declare an end to this thread and my moaning. I will come back and tell you when I have a job and then I will have a happy thread to cheer you all up.

Only this thread or all of the past and present with a signed contract that you WILL NOT start anymore until then?