Will postnatal depression prevent me becoming a childminder?

I have postnatal depression which I'm on anti-d's for. I went to a pre registration briefing for childminders today and was given a health declaration form my doctor has to fill in but I'm worried that the PND will prevent me becoming registered...

Anyone have any advice/experience with it?
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  • Rachie_B
    Rachie_B Posts: 8,785 Forumite
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    no it wont necessarily prevent you being registered but they do put it down on your forms etc

    HTH
    :)
  • wifeforlife
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    It stopped me becoming registered 3 years ago although it may be different in different parts of the country, I'm over in NI

    Cate
  • consultant31
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    I wonder if you realise how stressful it can be to childmind!

    I would have thought that having a houseful of children of different ages who require your undivided attention for hours at a time would not be the best way to lift you out of depression.

    I'm sorry to sound negative, but my daughter is a childminder and though I love children, I honestly don't know how she does it - the noise level can be horrendous and some of the children leave a lot to be desired :eek:

    I would be inclined to wait until you feel stronger, but I wish you luck whatever you decide.
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  • tosca5
    tosca5 Posts: 576 Forumite
    Don't want to sound negative but seriously having PND is very hard and would not help you any with filling your house with children.
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    I should have made clear that I am being treated with anti depressants and am feeling better that I did before medication. Before I went on maternity leave I was a nursery assistant and sometimes had up to 8 children on my own but obviously with childminding I can ease myself into it taking on one child and seeing how it goes etc. I have a dr's appointment tomorrow for a check up and will take down my health declaration and ask him what he thinks.
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  • Rachie_B
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    cathy2702 wrote: »
    It stopped me becoming registered 3 years ago although it may be different in different parts of the country, I'm over in NI

    Cate

    oops yeah good point !

    IA why not give a call or email to the NCMA http://www.ncma.org.uk
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    Would you be telling the parents of the minded child you had PND? I sympathise with your predicament as I had very bad PND myself, and found it very difficult looking after my own two young children when I was feeling depressed. For that reason, were I to have another, I would never leave it with anyone whom I knew to be still suffering from PND, as I know they would not get the same level of interaction and genuine engagement on a consistent basis with that carer, even if the condition was controlled sufficiently by medication to mean that they were perfectly safe. If I knew that the carer had been wholly free from PND for a sufficient period however that would be different.
  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    I wouldn't hire someone with PND (sorry), I've been lucky enough never to have it but my friend, mother and sister all have had it. They went through a lot my mother who didn't get proper help is still suffering after nearly 30 years.
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  • lynzpower
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    I wouldnt either to be honest with you.


    I have worked with many women with PND ( both treated and undtreated) and even those who are stable on treatment can find life a real struggle some days.

    id recommend getting yourslef better.Look after yourself and build your strength before committing to working, it can really set you back.


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    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
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