We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

advice

Hi
What is right ,
I am still married but husband left some years ago never paid any maintenance or a settlement he lived/worked abroad , so our laws could not touch him , he did buy a house in his sole name here so a charge was put on it ,
Me and 3 kids one disabled were rehoused by the council due to them classing ours as unfit to live in ( which was in joint names with husband )
Now his house ( here ) is mortage free and wants to sell it ( he also has a house in canada with girlfriend so I have now gone back to court to ask for monies due to me.
Solictors told me I will get monies due but the judge said I am not entitled as it was not the matrimonial home but I though anything brought while married was taken into account .
He did walk away scott free as all his dets were paid from sale of our home .

Comments

  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Is he the father of your children? Does he pay any maintenance to you for them?
  • FBaby
    FBaby Posts: 18,374 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Did you get something from the sale of the joint home when it was sold? Is the charge for what he owes in maintenance?
  • Dobiesmon
    Dobiesmon Posts: 504 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi
    He is the father of all 3 kids within our marriage since 73 , I have never had another partner , he never paid any monies for anything from when he left he just sent a letter .
    Money left over from sale of house (not much) is held in a bank who have lost account but solictor is trying to sort it out .
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,674 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    I'd say you need a divorce law solicitor! How 'legal" and enforcable is the payment of maintenance? I.e. Do you have a legal claim against this house he owns?
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.4K Life & Family
  • 261.5K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.