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shellsuit

savagevixen wrote: »

It's not that I am ashamed, it is because it was not on my terms. The local school is very affluent and I can't bear the thought of them all talking about us. This is really because our autistic son has been excluded by them twice, and before his November diagnosis, the school claimed it was us and our bad parenting that was responsible for his behaviour. We fought this and got the diagnosis.
Now I know they will all have been smugly patting themselves on the back, delighting in our misfortune and reflecting on how that stress would have affected our children and could easily have contributed to my son's behaviour.
It may sound paranoid, but I have dealt with these people for years now, and suffered all their sneaky little blows. Believe me they will have enjoyed that little titbit.

That's awful

You will always get people who are delighted at other peoples misfortune, but you did what you had to do ~ try not to feel bad

allofadither

Savage, those kind of people may be gloating now but just like many of us have found out on this forum, you never know what's round the corner. Nobody get's thru life without having some kind of !!!!!! to deal with, might be they just haven't stepped in theirs yet.