advice needed son has residency what rights does his ex have

devoted_nanny

i asked the sw about her extended family her answer was its up to my son what he does as his got residency but none has unsupervised and cos of that it will affect his private life as it will be like a drop in centre which she advises not to do it
sw said all the contact was the mother and judge only said mother

jayII

Then he needs to say no to the extended family, particularly if he feels they'd attack him. (Lynch mob?)

It's great that the grandparents are having contact in your home.

If you're totally comfortable with it and SW agrees, maybe an uncle, aunt, cousin or similar could occasionally come along with the grandparents. But that would really depend on their behaviour, how you feel and what the SW advises.

devoted_nanny

we have suggested that but the sw said no need, the chldren are settled and in a routiine i think the sw is worried its going to set the children bk by having too much contact
my son has had to work very hard to get tthem in a routine, regular meals, better diet they have now been signed off by docs etc
oldest child is not an angry little boy any more dont swear etc
and his done a lot of work with them both sharing love etc
contact between grandparents is getting better although they dont play with them it feels that its just a chance to get info from us but we try to encorage them to be more involved as they are supposed to be there 4 kids