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DMP & Mutual Support Thread - Part 9

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  • Mossop01
    Mossop01 Posts: 203 Forumite
    Haha a HSBC support group!
    Theyll need my support of they dont get their finger out!
    No post here either some free incontience pads?! What!!! Maybe theyre hsbc contribution to my financial situation!!!
    LBM Dec 2012 total debt 33,889 :eek:dmp started March 2013 DFD Dec 2024
    Nov 2015 balance £22,679 going in the right direction!!
    Onwards n upwards!:T
  • cocoloco
    cocoloco Posts: 589 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 25 February 2013 at 4:45PM
    Hi all!

    What a day! I had finally had my telephone interview with Stepchange- it was better than expected! We had been paying £1500:eek: / month just to service our debts and now we will be only paying £220! Take that preditors (laughs hysterically)! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:That was 55% of our total income- no wonder we were living off reduced stuff and credit cards! I already poster 13 out of 19 letters with the minimum payment (last Friday) and cancelled most of DD's but one MBNA DD slipped through at £116 - not happy!:o
    Hopefully our DMP will start on 1st April and was advised to just make £1 token payment and set up a different bank account away from our debts- I explained to her that I'm a big fan of moneysavingexperts forum and getting all the advise from here, including getting in touch with Stepchange. ;)
    Well, I'm ready for dance with our preditors, they will not get any more money from us. Hope you all have a good day, sorry about rambling on...

    PS- I suggested before that we should bring the issue with HSBC to Martin's :money:attention- I'm sure he could get them to explain as why are they keep putting on all sort of charges and maximum interest on people who are struggaling financially?!?:money:
    :p "NOTHING TASTES AS GOOD AS FREE FOOD" :p
    'They can have my money but not my life!'
    :eek: Debt & mortgage free in 18 years :eek:
    *
  • Mossop01
    Mossop01 Posts: 203 Forumite
    Well done on taking the first step cocoloco
    Onwards n upwards!
    LBM Dec 2012 total debt 33,889 :eek:dmp started March 2013 DFD Dec 2024
    Nov 2015 balance £22,679 going in the right direction!!
    Onwards n upwards!:T
  • Growurown
    Growurown Posts: 5,498 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Sadly the debts do rise at the start of a DMP but usually everything settles down after a few months, although I do remember one poster saying it was 6 months before they saw their debt decrease. Hope it doesn't take that long for you newbies though!!
    DMP Mutual Support Thread No. 421

    Debt free date 25/11/2015 - Made It!
  • cocoloco
    cocoloco Posts: 589 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Growurown wrote: »
    Sadly the debts do rise at the start of a DMP but usually everything settles down after a few months, although I do remember one poster saying it was 6 months before they saw their debt decrease. Hope it doesn't take that long for you newbies though!!

    To be honest GUO, I know we will be into it a longhaul-at the moment we are looking at 18 years of DMP:eek:.
    My reasoning is this- our mortgage will run also for 18 years and hopefully by the end of we will be mortgage and debt free- WITHOUT living in constant fear and stress and maybe will be able to enjoy our life a little :o.

    Currently I will not get upset about the balances- once I have the DMP up and running I will be on the back of any company with a vegence who will try to charge us unreasonably!!!
    :p "NOTHING TASTES AS GOOD AS FREE FOOD" :p
    'They can have my money but not my life!'
    :eek: Debt & mortgage free in 18 years :eek:
    *
  • Growurown
    Growurown Posts: 5,498 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    cocoloco wrote: »
    To be honest GUO, I know we will be into it a longhaul-at the moment we are looking at 18 years of DMP:eek:.
    My reasoning is this- our mortgage will run also for 18 years and hopefully by the end of we will be mortgage and debt free- WITHOUT living in constant fear and stress and maybe will be able to enjoy our life a little :o.

    Currently I will not get upset about the balances- once I have the DMP up and running I will be on the back of any company with a vegence who will try to charge us unreasonably!!!

    That's a long time, however to be debt free and mortgage free at the same time will be great. I think you will find though that the debts may go quicker than the mortgage. What you owe now will sound like peanuts in ten years time and circumstances can change (hopefully for the better!)

    As you say once the first hurdle is over then you can think about the other stuff. Do keep an eye on your balances though. Check regularly with your creditors to make sure that charges and/or interest is under control. You don't want to get a couple of years down the line thinking you have paid off a big wodge of your debt only to find the preditor has been piling on costs without your knowledge.
    DMP Mutual Support Thread No. 421

    Debt free date 25/11/2015 - Made It!
  • Time_to_face_the_music
    Time_to_face_the_music Posts: 5,454 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud! Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 25 February 2013 at 5:41PM
    cocoloco wrote: »
    ... once I have the DMP up and running I will be on the back of any company with a vegence who will try to charge us unreasonably!!!


    Go get 'em cocoloco! :T

    Had a very odd conversation with Lloyds TSB this afternoon. They have recently reintroduced interest and charges on an overdraft, we had managed to get these stopped with the help of the FOS last May. Foolishly we thought it was sorted and then Lloyds TSB stung us with an interest notice at the end of last week.

    Phoned up and played innocent, we thought you had stopped interest for the duration of the DMP blah blah.

    Lloyds TSB - no we only do this for a maximum of 12 months. You are paying too much and are clearly not in financial difficulty.

    Me - oh well, I will have to contact the FOS again.

    Lloyds TSB - well we could default you instead, then we would freeze interest and you can pay us whatever you want.

    Me - Oh yes please!

    Lloyds TSB - are you sure you want us to default you? It will be on your credit report for 6 years.

    Me - yes please.

    Lloyds TSB - ok it's done, you will receive the letters this week and we will refund all interest and charges from this month.

    It felt surreal but very good. 7 out of 10 debts now have interest frozen, which is a massive improvement on the last year. Maybe the moral of this story is ... If you want a default, ask for one :D
    LBM 10/1/12 ~ DFW Start 6/2/12: £82,344 ~ Now Zero
    :staradmin:starmod::staradmin Debt free 17th April 2015 :staradmin:starmod::staradmin
    Eternal thanks to the DMP & Mutual Support (no.439) and Payment a Day Threads
    Mortgage free 3rd July 2014 - Grateful thanks to the 2013/14 MFW threads
    "Debt is normal. Be weird!" Dave Ramsey
    Proud to have dealt with our debt :)
  • Growurown
    Growurown Posts: 5,498 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    It felt surreal but very good. 7 out of 10 debts now have interest frozen, which is a massive improvement on the last year. Maybe the moral of this story is ... If you want a default, ask for one :D


    Well done TTFTM. I can't understand why, when every other preditor has defaulted me, that I would be concerned about being defaulted by just one more:D
    DMP Mutual Support Thread No. 421

    Debt free date 25/11/2015 - Made It!
  • Congrats on that result. TtFtM Default or frozen interest? No contest. Default please ;-) Wonder if I can ask Barclaycard for one?
    Paddle No 21 :wave:
  • Mossop01
    Mossop01 Posts: 203 Forumite
    TTFTM good news with lloyds! Maybe if u dont ask u dont get..... Worth bearing it in mind
    LBM Dec 2012 total debt 33,889 :eek:dmp started March 2013 DFD Dec 2024
    Nov 2015 balance £22,679 going in the right direction!!
    Onwards n upwards!:T
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