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40th birthday present

My friend turns 40 end of January and Im struggling to think of a suitable birthday present.

Shes quite thrifty so buys a lot of clothes and shoes in the sales, so got a packed wardrobe. She doesn't read apart from shades of grey :p, fussy about perfume.

I was thinking of spending about £25 give or take.

Shes a community nurse, got 2 kids.

Thank You :j

Comments

  • karren
    karren Posts: 1,260 Forumite
    what about a pamper hamper?
    say a voucher for a treatment in local salon, and some nice pamper things like bubble bath, nail things etc with voucher in the hamper?
    :A :j
  • When I'm stuck for a present, I always buy a bottle of Champagne, put it in a pretty bag, add ribbons etc!!!!!
  • CT19720
    CT19720 Posts: 1,482 Forumite
    edited 28 December 2012 at 8:57PM
    I had a couple of friends who turned 40 last year and did the following, and it was well received:

    Party in a bag (just used a gift bag):

    Bubbles
    mini bottle of wine
    party poppers
    'whizzy' balloons
    nice wine glass
    box of chocolates

    Survival kit - 40 things to celebrate your birthday

    Some of the things I put in were:

    Ball of life (foam ball) - fondle it constantly
    Blue tack - to help you stick with it when the going gets tough
    Button - to remind you that some things are best left unsaid
    Coin - so you'll never be completely broke
    Glitter - to add some sparkle to your life
    Gold thread - to tie our friendship together

    These are just some of the 40 I made, and most of the things I used, I had in the house anyway, so money wise it didn't cost much, but time wise it did as I did a lable for each one, and sealed each time in a cellophane bag:

    DSCF3621_zps7d5980da.jpg

    DSCF3592_zps9eed8575.jpg

    Both times made these survival kits, I also did a bag of papering bits for a nice soak in the bath, as both friends have kids, and there only 'me' time is having a good soak in the bath, so I gave them:

    tealight holders with tealight
    nice bubble bath/soap/shampoo (the brands I know they like and use)
    nail varnish
    some chocolate too
    2016 is the year I am going to find time for me, and cherish the time I spend with my friends and family.
    It is also time to save - Aim £4,000 - So far this year - £230/£4,000
  • I've bought for quite a few 40ths over the past year and have spent the money on one nice item to mark the occasion.

    It really depends on the person and what you think they'd like. Indian head massage? Something lovely from Jo Malone? Small item from somewhere like Mulberry? Art or ceramics?
  • These bangles from lisaangel are lovely - I am giving a set to my sister for her birthday

    http://www.lisaangel.co.uk/Set-Meaningful-Words-Multi-Bangles
    squeaky wrote: »
    Smiles are as perfect a gift as hugs...
    ..one size fits all... and nobody minds if you give it back.
    ☆.。.:*・° Housework is so much easier without the clutter ☆.。.:*・°
    SPC No. 518
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