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  • Goldiegirl wrote: »
    I do understand what you mean

    My husband has a long standing friend, and him and his wife have always been the ones who are keen to carry on the present giving tradition. My DH and I don't exchange presents with other friends, just this couple.

    Over the last few years the presents we receive have been getting odder and odder. Last year I was given something that was originally a present to the wife, it still had a gift tag addressed to her in the box!

    This year I got a t shirt which isn't my style at all, which judging from the price tag still attached, was bought from the bargain rail on a cruise ship they went on last May.

    I don't want or expect expensive presents, but they are the one who are keen to carry on with the present giving, you'd think they'd put in a bit of thought.

    We are now trying to think up a really bizarre present for them next year!

    I've got a thermometer with the price coloured in if you want it for them!! ;)
  • Goldiegirl
    Goldiegirl Posts: 8,821 Forumite
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    I've got a thermometer with the price coloured in if you want it for them!! ;)

    LOL :rotfl:
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  • ognum
    ognum Posts: 4,879 Forumite
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    I think it is time for you to say "we have decided not to give gifts" !
  • Well I have shared this page with my hubby and he had agreed next year birthdays and Christmas it's going to be a £5 present for them...Not junk as such but something not that special or costly.

    Well I'm getting somewhere! :D
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    That's a good start ... Now £5 ... What can u get for £5 hmmmmm deodorant ... A couple of tins ... With reduced stickers on if you can manage
  • elantan wrote: »
    That's a good start ... Now £5 ... What can u get for £5 hmmmmm deodorant ... A couple of tins ... With reduced stickers on if you can manage

    I could get them 5 yellow scarfs from Poundland but don't think I would be allowed! :p He said it would have to ''Look decent but not be expensive'' so probably just a gift set but from somewhere not as nice as the body shop etc. At least next year I won't have to feel sad for him when he opens some rubbish because I know we haven't really bothered with them.
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    If its up for grabs I would love the themometre with the price coloured is.

    I have been looking for a themometre in the house, I know we have a few, and I don't want to use the ones I use for the animals. I don't know why themometres always disappear here ( unless it's some disgruntled pet)
  • If its up for grabs I would love the themometre with the price coloured is.

    I have been looking for a themometre in the house, I know we have a few, and I don't want to use the ones I use for the animals. I don't know why themometres always disappear here ( unless it's some disgruntled pet)

    I'd happily give it to you but I'm sure I'll be made to put it somewhere just to show we have used it!! :eek:
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    I know exactly what you mean moreofthegoodstuff. It doesnt matter if it cost £1, if the gift was chosen with care! to be given something that was seemingly grabbed at random is insulting!
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    Put it somewhere they will see it ... With the sticker right beside it :)
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