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My 15 yr old son scammed and ripped off. Any advice?

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  • techspec
    techspec Posts: 4,464 Forumite
    Wywth wrote: »

    A buyer can get a seller's contact details from ebay on request.

    How - they told me the can't - due to data protection.

    I had to contact a seller who had sold to him - and they were happy to give me the address they posted to.
  • Pay pal are a good medium to use for payment. They do have a buyers protection scheme as long as you don't do a private transaction they will claw back any money.
    Gumtree is part of E Bay, and also Pay pal so it's an acceptable method on all.
  • Wywth
    Wywth Posts: 5,079 Forumite
    edited 20 December 2012 at 7:21PM
    techspec wrote: »
    How - they told me the can't - due to data protection.

    I had to contact a seller who had sold to him - and they were happy to give me the address they posted to.

    http://pages.ebay.co.uk/help/buy/contact.html#about ;)

    Most (but not all) confirmation of your order emails from ebay contain the sellers name & address.
    If they don't, then that's the time to be suspicious before sending any money, especially if not paying by paypal.
  • Wywth
    Wywth Posts: 5,079 Forumite
    jimbo24168 wrote: »
    We tried that but he had used false details and closed the bank account as soon as he had withdrawn the money.

    Presumably you reported this and the seller is now booted off ebay for not maintaining up to date contact information :)
  • techspec
    techspec Posts: 4,464 Forumite
    Wywth wrote: »
    http://pages.ebay.co.uk/help/buy/contact.html#about ;)

    Most (but not all) confirmation of your order emails from ebay contain the sellers name & address.
    If they don't, then that's the time to be suspicious before sending any money, especially if not paying by paypal.

    Thats used to just give the sellers postcode and telepohone number - as it changed?

    And none of my confirmation emails have ever contained the sellers adress.
  • cavework
    cavework Posts: 1,992 Forumite
    edited 20 December 2012 at 8:28PM
    Ad on Gumtree all boards re Benjamin Russell
    posted by me.
    Action fraud response
    "sorry this has happened we collate the information given and pass it on to Police fraud dept"
    me
    "so how do I check on progress for a reported fraud with a case number and the b****** bank account details?" (information I am adding to via action fraud as more people scammed are contacting me)
    AF reply
    "well you can't .. we forward all cases to the Police Fraud Dept and they decide which cases to persue, but please keep copies of all emails and evidence as they may contact you in the future"
  • PhylPho
    PhylPho Posts: 1,443 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Vague to the point of stupidity: 'Police Fraud Department'. No such thing. You'd be best to demand much greater clarification. And don't let them fob you off: your son was the victim of a crime, not bloody Gumtree.
  • cavework
    cavework Posts: 1,992 Forumite
    Action fraud .. cop off
    Even the policeman that visited and aparently had to attend a course on this new .. solves all problems with fraud was scratching his head
  • cavework
    cavework Posts: 1,992 Forumite
    edited 20 December 2012 at 8:47PM
    I think it is London fraud investgation or something like that...
    I phoned action Fraud last night to ask how I could get an upate on my case re my report which now has 3 more people conned and I have forwarded all the info by email
    response was
    maybe its time to move on ??? !!!!!!
    I have his bank details ... his email addy was still live on Saturday
  • jimbo24168 wrote: »
    We tried that but he had used false details and closed the bank account as soon as he had withdrawn the money. Not sure how he conned ebay, perhaps it's simple, I don't know.

    To me, he either

    a) used a false details to open Ebay account but a genuine bank account, from which he could be traced by the police, or
    b) used false details to open Ebay account AND a bank account, which then opens up possible fraud / money laundering charges, which the police could act upon.

    If the details used to open the bank account were false then it speaks volumes about so-called anti-money laundering procedures by the bank!
    DFW'er - Lightbulb moment : 31st July 2009 - £18,499
    28th October 2019 -
    £13,505 - 27% paid off.
    Demolishing my House of Debt.. one brick at a time!! :)
    Thinking of spending???..YNAB says "NO!!!!"


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