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Mrs_stinkface

Doh, i forgot to say morning. Bit late now so i'll say afternoon instead.
Hope everyone is ok. I'm going to have a chilled out afternoon and make some mince pies with my little monkey. Then i've got a Christmas party to go to tonight so i need to find a frock in my disaster of a wardrobe .
Have a great day x

bubbs

pattylabelle wrote: »

Oh Bubbs - if the bbc weather map is right today is a bad one for you but clearing tomorrow. If you can only survive today and tonight.......I will be thinking of you:A

Thanks, im just watching the weather too, but its everywhere look at poor cornwall and devon , i hope we can survive too, i know we are not near the coast but its high tide and that that effects us too, the washlands are full

pattylabelle

bubbs wrote: »

Thanks, im just watching the weather too, but its everywhere look at poor cornwall and devon , i hope we can survive too, i know we are not near the coast but its high tide and that that effects us too, the washlands are full

Where are you - cornwall? Oh crikey yes not good down there at all looking at forecast- hoping they have got the forecast wrong this time:(

pattylabelle

Check yur emails folks - starbucks have sent me an egift of a free coffee:)

couponqueen123

bubbs wrote: »

Thanks, im just watching the weather too, but its everywhere look at poor cornwall and devon , i hope we can survive too, i know we are not near the coast but its high tide and that that effects us too, the washlands are full

wishing you a safe day hun, and i just seen the weather too and my o/h and i was just telling him about you , he was saying how brave you sound as he thinks id have had a melt down :eek:, im no good with water, i was on holiday as a child in a pool and someone jumped in ontop of me and knocked me unconscious and my dad saved me luckily he see it happen, so naw any time we go on holiday i dnt go in pool,sea i h8t it i do manage to take my kids to the kids pool with other my family but i only stand there in the water just to make the kids not be scared and my dd1 can swin naw so just dd2 to learn :T

im off to butchers now to get my meats and bits , then home and kids shuld be abck tea time unles they stay up nanas again lol :rotfl: they been pantome today , they been real spoiled the last couple of days - been lovely to see there faces ,

pattylabelle

czerniacha wrote: »

I think I need to post up there for people to skip the *night shift* :P

You up and going already?:D

bubbs

pattylabelle wrote: »

Where are you - cornwall? Oh crikey yes not good down there at all looking at forecast- hoping they have got the forecast wrong this time:(

No we are in Northampton, just seen local weather forescast and its pants to say the least

bubbs

Thanks couponqueen, unfortunatley you just have to get on with it, this is the 3rd time this year

rose28454

couponqueen123 wrote: »

hey hun , how toy feeling today, everyone knows you care i just think you family have come to the conclusion oh rose will do it or rose will sort it ,

i feel you need to write , phone , or meet and just tell them your taking a few months off the full time caring and wuld-need some time to rest and recharge yr battries ,

could you and yr o/h go to a nice quiet spot for a chat or drive in car , being somewhere thats not yr house can some times help to chat,

also how old is yr daughter and is she working, reciving housing benifts, if she is then i suggest you are cruel to be kind and point out the cost of home,running it , and tell her if she can find somewhere cheaper than your offering then take it but remind her its not just the bill you pay, yr constant suport, a family home and somewhere she can fell safe and have more cash to her self ?

im sory to hear about you and yr o/h , is there any way you to could sit and chat , go out for drive,walk, or even mediation to sort probelms out , you never know it might just be you to need to get it all out in open hun ,

also wish i lived closer id come help to hun also please be strong and there is always something to go on for hun --- if you dont listen or want to listen to anything i say please listen to that part hun , YOU ARE AMAZING AND A TOWER OF STRENGH,:A

Just back to pick up my purse on the way to more shopping. Had quite a good sleep. Popped to Mums this morning to say goodbye to my Aunt and give her her Xmas pressie. Mum and sister acting like nothing happened. Just spoke to Mum and she said it was my other sister and I who told other sister to tell Aunty they had to go to brothers. Completely not true and I told her that. She asked what I was doing and I said out shopping and she said " Of course you are!". sarcastically.
OH is a recovering alcoholic who lives on his own and does not like any conflict. So no good speaking to him.
DD has been home 3 weeks, is about to ditch her fiance after 8 years and is not telling him till New Year. He is coming here for Xmas so will be a bit awkward. He is nice but my DD does not want to be with him anymore but thats her choice. I have been trying to counsel her about it for some months but I am an enabler ( 25 years married to an alcoholic) and I think I can fix everything.

Anyway feeling better today, made decision to walk away from caring for Mum either for a few months or permanently and need to concentrate on me.

I told DD this morning that if her being here is permanent we need to discuss money and ground rules after Xmas or she can live elsewhere. She is working part time in an Estate Agents and has recently started a hair extension business.

Thanks for your kind thoughts and am so glad I can come on here and get support. You are all fab!! Now what chocolate is glitching today!!!

mhoc

Drat, just noticed that my £1 melon from this morning went through for £2.97 and so I had a look at it. It had the £1 sticker and also a watermelon barcode sticker :mad:

So I rang CS and she took details and gave me a code number to quote when I next go in to get the extra refunded and a gift card as well. I've not done one of these before, just hope it goes to plan. That was a really bad shop - it was also the non working vin is barrels shop :mad: I really didn't want any s looking at this receipt as I paid with a combination of APG, gift card, money and I also had a car park ticket taken off.