How to chase non r.s.v.p'rs

ladypike

Still waiting for a few people even though I have spoken to them!!!! they said 'oh yes I keep forgetting I will do it asap'
well do it then!!! I dont know why they couldnt tell me there and then. I find it really rude, I would rather someone just say no thank you then ignore us all together!

I cant believe how people treated you 'joho'. Thanks for your advice
:-)

roseability_2

Just a thought but if you're sending xmas cards could you put something like 'sorry that we won't be seeing you at the wedding but hope to see you soon' or even something more direct.

Scotsbride

xmas card sounds a good idea be honest with people and direct you need to whether they are coming or not now as the caters venue etc need to know numbers and want them now ! p.s would unlined the word now. If they don't get back to you you could do what I did confrount them and said I needed to know whether it was yes or no. come don't I don't care but I need to know the answer now! (probably wasn't mine finest hour considering it was my boss.But I got the answer the next day! and still have my job)