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mortgage separation question
sportbeth
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Hi all,
I split from my ex lately, just a philosophical question for the divorce before i speak to a solicitor.
The ex and I split the equity down the middle on the old place, he mortgaged in his name and I bought a place in my name, however we also split remaining savings 50/50 and I then got hit with a £10k stamp duty bill and buying fees. that left him debt free and with £10k in the bank, I was in the red straight away!
if you were in my shoes (and you were divorcing on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour) would you ask for a higher split of the savings or just walk away thankful for your sanity?
I split from my ex lately, just a philosophical question for the divorce before i speak to a solicitor.
The ex and I split the equity down the middle on the old place, he mortgaged in his name and I bought a place in my name, however we also split remaining savings 50/50 and I then got hit with a £10k stamp duty bill and buying fees. that left him debt free and with £10k in the bank, I was in the red straight away!
if you were in my shoes (and you were divorcing on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour) would you ask for a higher split of the savings or just walk away thankful for your sanity?
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You bought a new place of your own and paid over £250K so you like thousands of other buyers paid STAMP DUTY of over £10K
Blame the government not your EX0 -
would you ask for a higher split of the savings or just walk away thankful for your sanity?
Given you managed an amicable agreement without recourse to solicitor. Then personally I would walk away.
You'd only recover 50% of your outlay. From this £5k doesn't go far when solicitors charge in the hundreds per hour.0
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