Time to start again

happy_daddy_2

Well this afternoon I was blessed to see my sister and her children it was great to see everyone and it was lovely to have a mess about with them they left around 4pm and I was treat also by my parents fish and chips and curry sauce yum, once I had finished my tea I went into the garage to start denunking throwing away our old clutter, and sorting things we can sell online I did this for two hours, and afterwards went to my friends and got my supper and shared good company with her, very pleased how everything is and most important a non spend day x I am so thankful to everyone love and support forever I will be great cup xx goodnight xx

happy_daddy_2

Hey good morning everyone it's lovely to see the sun is shining, today I am working 12 hours, four days off from tomorrow also had a lovely bacon sandwich to start the day enjoy your day folks x hd x

happy_daddy_2

Well so far I am just counting the hours down till home time really looking forward to my four day break for dinner I haven't eaten anything I just don't really fancy anything, it was lovely watching the girls go out for meal takeout for dinner, I thought well at least I am going to be saving today well folks, whatever your up to have a good afternoon and make it count xhdx

happy_daddy_2

Hi I am finding things so hard at the moment I am so trying to keep motivated with everything but keep falling behind and feeling low at the moment I am still trying to address the situation with my parents health I so wish they would move into a smaller property but my father will not he's adamant the only way he will leave this home is via a coffin the house is getting in such a right state. the situationn with my dd is still on going and the pressures of this situation is really getting to me, Working the hours that I do I find it difficult to fit things in such as my parents situation Debt busting DD x I just wish there was more hours in the day to fit in the things that I need to do I am just feeling so pants right now.....

beanielou

Keep plodding!

HeadAboveWater

Please don't give up! One step at a time

Mara_uk7

Hey Happy Daddy, Hope you had a lovely 4 day break, and youre feeling less stressed today. Do you have any brothers or sisters who might be able to help with the aged parent situation ? Its very hard seeing ones parents get older and less able, and the traditional roles being reversed where the child becomes the looker-afterer.
Take care of you, Youre a special guy . x

kelpie35

It is very stressful trying to juggle work, looking after parents and all the hassle you have trying to see your daughter.

I don't have an easy answer to all this stress but I know you need to ask for help from people who can support you.

I know from all your posts you as such a caring and determined person but you should not feel ashamed to ask for help from either family or outside services.

If you continue to try to struggle alone it will catch up with you and then you will not have the strength to carry on. I know about this as I was in a similar position many years ago.

Please, for your own well being try to get some help and stay strong. :A

Shelski_2

One day at a time. It will get better x

happy_daddy_2

Thanks Shelski and everyone else for your comments I really do appreciate it i take everything on board what you all say. In my heart I will keep fighting and plodding on, a few posts ago one lady wrote about how ugly the situation will become, the lies that are said and the things that will go on, on a weekly basis the situation changes I am in a position now, and each situation is different that I see my daughter from the Friday to the Saturday this was given back to me by the ex but she knows that I have to work two weekends a month originally I was seeing her from Friday after school till Monday 8pm its been like this for 9 years now.DD hates the new arrangements and cries on a weekend, and I am finding it hard but thankful that at least I am seeing her now compared to before and I will keep the situation going trying to get more time back with my daughter via solicitor.

Financially I am now feeling that I have backslided a bit and need just re directing onto a fresher path again, but this is the Beauty with a Diary it motivates, people listen and you will get a reply, I found a lovely quote on the internet recently SUCCESS begins in the second letter U I love that, so I am proud to say I am back not to a hundred percent But i am ready to start my baby steps again on my path in becoming Debt free. Have a great Friday folks you are just one step away from the weekend. HDx