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  • Calfuray
    Calfuray Posts: 1,003 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Exciting times cal! :beer:
    Watty1 wrote: »
    Wow !! Exciting times ahead

    Thank you both :) We actually got a phonecall today, have a viewing booked for tomorrow. Trying to not get my hopes up. No wonder people say buying/selling a house is so stressful!
  • Good luck with the sale - it'll all be worth it.

    Fortune x
    Mortgage: 100% paid Emergency Fund: 100%
    A Better View 🌄 'Being on the edge isn't as safe, but the view is better' - Ricky Gervais
  • Calfuray
    Calfuray Posts: 1,003 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Once again, it's been a while.

    So what's been happening?

    The house was sold a couple of months ago, to the 3rd viewer, for 98.5% of the home report value. I was very happy to be proven wrong on my usual pessimism.
    The sale wasn't 100% without drama, most of it due to FTB misunderstandings/nerves. It culminated in the buyer trying to sue us and then disappearing into the woodwork red-faced.
    Very glad that is all over!

    Unfortunately, since January my husband has been experiencing symptoms which rapidly got worse over the past 6 weeks. It's been a rollercoaster, and now he's been diagnosed with 3 separate genetic diseases. One of them will need life-long management and injections, and one of them has caused a permanent, incurable disability.
    My only silver linings are the NHS, that he's not in any pain, and that my job has been very flexible and kind.

    Bit of a downer to post, sorry. I don't know how this will affect our finances in the future, with the possibility that he may not be able to work etc. Having to take it in the very short term for now, but once everything settles down, will be able to start making long-term plans.
    I will probably hang around here a bit, but I'm unlikely to post much.

    Hope everyone is well,
    Cal x
  • Calfuray
    Calfuray Posts: 1,003 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    From what I was posting yesterday, I thought that I better do a calculation of net worth, so we know where we stand.
    [SIZE=2][FONT=Courier New]               CURRENTVALUE            
    Cash:            [COLOR=Blue]£38,000.00[/COLOR]     
    Pensions:        [COLOR=Blue]£6,869.90[/COLOR]      
    Car Value:       [COLOR=Blue]£3,000.00[/COLOR]     
    S&S:             [COLOR=Blue]£3,071.80[/COLOR]            
    Student Loan:    [COLOR=DarkRed]-£22,293.47[/COLOR]      
    [B]Total:           £28658.23[/B][/FONT][/SIZE]
    

    Student loans still hasn't updated for the year, so this is actually 2017 vales. Same for pension amount.
  • Great news on the house sale Cal! Very sorry to hear about your husband's health :(
  • Calfuray
    Calfuray Posts: 1,003 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Great news on the house sale Cal! Very sorry to hear about your husband's health :(

    Thanks SSS :) We're in the process of getting him registered as sight impaired just now, and speaking to work and college to see if it's going to be feasible or practical for him to complete his college course or continue to work. Once we know the level he is classed as and have advice from a few appointments next week then I'm hoping we'll know more for the future.
  • I hope it's good news on the severity front Cal.

    Is your husband a computers guy? The same kind of thing as you? If so maybe a high contrast screen setting could help? He could end up looking like the coolest retro hipster if he used a matrix style green on black screen... I reckon there could easily be a pay rise in it as he'd look like he really meant business behind a keyboard! :)

    Best of luck at the appointments :)
  • Fortune_Smiles
    Fortune_Smiles Posts: 5,101 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Oh my Cal! What a time you've had. Good to see you back.

    Big hugs

    Fortune x
    Mortgage: 100% paid Emergency Fund: 100%
    A Better View 🌄 'Being on the edge isn't as safe, but the view is better' - Ricky Gervais
  • Calfuray
    Calfuray Posts: 1,003 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    I hope it's good news on the severity front Cal.

    Is your husband a computers guy? The same kind of thing as you? If so maybe a high contrast screen setting could help? He could end up looking like the coolest retro hipster if he used a matrix style green on black screen... I reckon there could easily be a pay rise in it as he'd look like he really meant business behind a keyboard! :)

    Best of luck at the appointments :)

    Thanks SSS. I got him a tablet so he would have more real estate, we're talking over size 100 font and about 30cm from his face before he can read anything.
    We're hoping he will get classed as the higher level (legally blind) so that we can get more support to be honest, the effects are certainly bad enough.

    However, I am that cool person at work with the Matrix-style terminals :cool:
    Oh my Cal! What a time you've had. Good to see you back.

    Big hugs

    Fortune x

    Thanks Fortune, thanks for stopping by, good to see you. I've been popping in to your shop and FB, are you not drawing any more? Hope the new house is treating you well xx
  • Fortune_Smiles
    Fortune_Smiles Posts: 5,101 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Calfuray wrote: »
    Thanks Fortune, thanks for stopping by, good to see you. I've been popping in to your shop and FB, are you not drawing any more? Hope the new house is treating you well xx

    I'm doing a couple of paintings for the local WI show at the moment but that's all. We moved last year and there's been so much going on I haven't had the chance. I'm hoping to pick my brushes up again in the summer... if it ever gets here.

    Fortune x
    Mortgage: 100% paid Emergency Fund: 100%
    A Better View 🌄 'Being on the edge isn't as safe, but the view is better' - Ricky Gervais
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