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Buyer wants me to deliver to a 2nd Address?

Hi my buyer has said she's having problems with deliveries and has asked me to send an item to her mothers. Both addresses are in Essex, I know about the scams but would this cause me problems? Thanks for any advice
Look after the pennies and the £££s will look after themselves

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  • freddysmith
    freddysmith Posts: 2,002 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    It depends on what the item is and it's value.
    If you post to a non confirmed address, Paypal will not cover you but you would have to send it tracked/signed for anyway to cover yourself on a confirmed address.
    If it is a low value item I would check the buyers history/feedback and send it 1st class to the alternate address and get a proof of postage fron the Post Office.
    You can then claim from Royal Mail if not delivered.
  • Joto wrote: »
    Hi my buyer has said she's having problems with deliveries and has asked me to send an item to her mothers. Both addresses are in Essex, I know about the scams but would this cause me problems? Thanks for any advice

    If you send the item to an address that differs from the address given by paypal, I believe you will lose any seller protection you may have.

    Don't do it. Tell the buyer you can only send the item to the address supplied by paypal.
  • Joto_2
    Joto_2 Posts: 1,001 Forumite
    The items sold for £40 and I'm sending it by myhermes so I will have tracking but probably not signed for.
    Look after the pennies and the £££s will look after themselves
  • Joto wrote: »
    The items sold for £40 and I'm sending it by myhermes so I will have tracking but probably not signed for.

    If you send to a different address and the buyer claims not to have received it, you will be unable to prove that it has been delivered as you are not sending to the address supplied by paypal.

    Don't do it.
  • steveo3002
    steveo3002 Posts: 2,731 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    i think they can add the address to thier paypal?
  • System
    System Posts: 178,375 Community Admin
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    If something goes wrong, you will lose them item and the money. Given that you took the time to post this thread, you must be suspicious already, best advice is trust your instincts.
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • I_wanna_live_for_free
    I_wanna_live_for_free Posts: 393 Forumite
    edited 28 October 2012 at 6:07PM
    Get them to add the address to paypal then you can safely send it there.

    Go to Profile > Update next to Address > Add Address > Select Add a gift address enter your information > Save

    https://paypal.co.uk/helpcenter/main.jsp;jsessionid=NH21QtNcYNcLsnMTtp26GThvYTyGpXqZLQ41yzFkq6hHR1YT8Xm2!619532206?t=solutionTab&ft=homeTab&ps=&solutionId=1209634&locale=en_GB&_dyncharset=UTF-8&countrycode=GB&cmd=_help&serverInstance=9012
  • hiccup123
    hiccup123 Posts: 386 Forumite
    Buyer can change address on their paypal when making payment. If they have paid, you may want to refund them and request they change the address and repay. Message them first
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