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Leave a neutral or not bother?

I recently won an auction for a winter coat for my DD.

The coat arrived and it looked fine, but inside the pockets were loads of rubbish - snotty tissues and sweet wrappers.

I mailed the seller who got a bit uppity about it and just replied 'So, you got the coat didnt you!'

I feel like leaving a neutral as the coat obviously wasnt washed before sending, and the attitude of the seller was a bit off.
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  • Tiglath
    Tiglath Posts: 3,816 Forumite
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    I'd leave a factual comment, but I'd toss up between a neutral and a negative. There's no excuse for selling something with that kind of germy rubbish in the pockets. What's their other feedback like?
    "Save £12k in 2019" #120 - £100,699.57/£100,000
  • LunaLady
    LunaLady Posts: 1,625 Forumite
    She has 100% feedback but it looks like most of them are as a buyer. Only 52 ratings.
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  • Tiglath
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    Assuming she's new to selling then, I'd go for a neutral but definitely comment about the stuff in the pockets.
    "Save £12k in 2019" #120 - £100,699.57/£100,000
  • Sorry, but there's absolutely no excuse for sending it out in that state in the first place, and then replying with a type of message like that.

    I'd personally neg her with a factual statement - "Coat arrived with rubbish in pockets. Seller rude when I complained".

    If they're fairly new to selling, it may make them think twice the next time.
  • I would have left a neutral up until the reply to the e-mail was received.
    If they had apologised about the stuff in the pockets I might have considered sticking at neutral, but after "'So, you got the coat didnt you!'" I would have negged them.
  • steveo3002
    steveo3002 Posts: 2,731 Forumite
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    neg for the nasty message , could have been a mistake and a nice appology but when they get stroppy i think a neg is in order
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,585 Forumite
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    neg (because of her response) and block her;)
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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  • RainbowDrops
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    Feedback comment suggestion:

    Seller was as snotty as the tissues left in this dirty item.
  • The problem with that is that the seller might manage to get ebay to remove the neg if they claim it's insulting.

    Something simply such as:

    Dirty tissues in coat when delivered. Seller not bothered.
  • jimkerr wrote: »
    Email her telling you are going to leave negative unless she refunds 50%

    Any feedback she then leaves will be removable then, as that would count as feedback abuse/extortion...

    And why a partial refund? You do that yourself do you?


    Most sellers will tell you the same as i would, either return for a full refund. I, and many other sellers don't don't fold with threats like that. And i for one, don't do 'partial refunds'.
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