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Child-related benefits may be 'capped' at two children

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  • dawn_rose
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    alinwales wrote: »
    Question: how do you stop women getting pregnant?

    get all men to go for the snip? they dont do it alone after all.
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  • alinwales
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    You can't. But what's the point of your question?


    Cause and effect.
    You get pregnant, you have a baby.
    You have a baby, you get free money.

    If you stop the free money, it doesn't get rid of the root cause of Waynetta getting pregnant in the first place. Because she's still likely to do it regardless of if there's a carrot or not.

    Can you forcefully sterilise people(yes, men too)?... I think that's probably stepping over a line somewhere... blame it on 21st century civilisation or something.

    Do we know how many 'large' families are doing it to milk the system, or how many have no idea about money and just can't be bothered with contraception?
  • Graham_Devon
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    alinwales wrote: »
    Cause and effect.
    You get pregnant, you have a baby.
    You have a baby, you get free money.

    If you stop the free money, it doesn't get rid of the root cause of Waynetta getting pregnant in the first place. Because she's still likely to do it regardless of if there's a carrot or not.

    Can you forcefully sterilise people(yes, men too)?... I think that's probably stepping over a line somewhere... blame it on 21st century civilisation or something.

    Do we know how many 'large' families are doing it to milk the system, or how many have no idea about money and just can't be bothered with contraception?

    The aim isn't to stop people getting pregnant. If someone wishes to do so, thats their choice.

    The aim is to reduce the benefits bill at a time our debts are going through the roof.

    This seems a sensible proposal. You'll get help with 2, but no more help after that.
  • GeorgeHowell
    GeorgeHowell Posts: 2,739 Forumite
    You can't stop it, but you can disincentivise it. It won't be 100% effective, but a lot better than what we have now. Regarding those who still knock out kids and don't have enough money to look after them, you take the kids away and put them into fostering or care. Rather than keep subsidising such behaviour I would rather that taxpayers' money were used to have these kids looked after properly, as opposed to being dragged up by morons.
    No-one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions. He had money as well.

    The problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money.

    Margaret Thatcher
  • alinwales
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    The aim isn't to stop people getting pregnant. If someone wishes to do so, thats their choice.

    The aim is to reduce the benefits bill at a time our debts are going through the roof.

    This seems a sensible proposal. You'll get help with 2, but no more help after that.

    Sure, but you still have to consider the children. They're blameless in all this and if they can't be fed then what happens? forced into care?
  • dawn_rose
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    kids in care often face abuse also and not just of a deprived kind. the so called foster care isnt always being so because they love kids and want to give back to society. Sometimes its coz of the 25000 a year it pays.
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  • GeorgeHowell
    GeorgeHowell Posts: 2,739 Forumite
    alinwales wrote: »
    Sure, but you still have to consider the children. They're blameless in all this and if they can't be fed then what happens? forced into care?

    Yes -- surely better than being dragged up by morons.
    No-one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions. He had money as well.

    The problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money.

    Margaret Thatcher
  • GeorgeHowell
    GeorgeHowell Posts: 2,739 Forumite
    dawn_rose wrote: »
    kids in care often face abuse also and not just of a deprived kind. the so called foster care isnt always being so because they love kids and want to give back to society. Sometimes its coz of the 25000 a year it pays.

    At least they are vetted, and are unlikely to be f e c k less, ignorant, self-indulgent, irresponsible drunkards and druggies mumping off the state.
    No-one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions. He had money as well.

    The problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money.

    Margaret Thatcher
  • Graham_Devon
    Graham_Devon Posts: 58,560 Forumite
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    alinwales wrote: »
    Sure, but you still have to consider the children. They're blameless in all this and if they can't be fed then what happens? forced into care?

    It would be difficult to feed them on £13 a week anyway, especially under the circumstances you suggest where the parents don't care.

    In the situation you describe, proper social service involvement will do massively more than chucking the parents £13 a week. I believe I am considering the children when I say that.
  • Graham_Devon
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    edited 25 October 2012 at 2:46PM
    dawn_rose wrote: »
    kids in care often face abuse also and not just of a deprived kind. the so called foster care isnt always being so because they love kids and want to give back to society. Sometimes its coz of the 25000 a year it pays.

    I refer to what I posted on page one.

    People don't seem to even take on the fact that chucking £13 doesn't solve ANY of these problems.

    But people home in in on the removal of this £13 from these bizzare angles and suggest that the kids will suddenly suffer, and they can't go into care as they'll suffer far more, therefore we muct keep bunging the parents £13 a week.

    As an aside, your post disgusted me. £25,000 is a pittance for carrying out foster care, and secondly, 99% are truly loving, devoted, and brilliant people. The amount they have to deal with blows my mind.
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