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Trying to avoid being gouged for parent care cost

I'm trying to find a way of buying my mother's home at a very reduced price in order to avoid her only asset from being swallowed up by her care home costs. Both my parents paid tax all their lives and never really used the NHS. Now it's time for my remaining parent to be cared for and her home has to be sold. The family agrees that, if it can be done, as I am the only one in a position to do it, that it's a good idea. Obviously, I will only do it if it's legal. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this? Or is it best avoided altogether?
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  • Werdnal
    Werdnal Posts: 3,780 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Google "Deprivation of Assets" and have good read. The Authorities have got there before you!
  • 00ec25
    00ec25 Posts: 9,123 Forumite
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    are you talking about council funded care costs?

    if so then as she requries care now then you have left it too late as trying to tkae her home out of her name to deliberately reduce her assets that would be sold to fund her care is called deprivation of assets and means the council will treat her as though she still owned the home and adjust her level of funding accordingly

    these rules exist to prevent exactly what you are tryiong to do. Debating the morality of the fact they paid into tax all their life has nothing to do with the reality that they cannot now expect the taxpayer to fund them when they have a large asset of their own which they are expected to sell to pay for their own care

    if you google deprivation of assets you wil fund millions of posts on this topic
    the guide from AGE Uk is a good summary
    http://www.ageuk.org.uk/home-and-care/care-homes/deprivation-of-assets-in-the-means-test-for-care-home-provision/
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,895 Forumite
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    Can't be done you will have to pay the market rate. Surely you wouldn't deprive your mother of the money for her care. ;)
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • wehalf
    wehalf Posts: 18 Forumite
    Right. Thanks for that. The state will take over her care costs when the asset runs out but, fair enough - it can't be done.
  • morganedge
    morganedge Posts: 1,320 Forumite
    theoretically, If one was to plan for this event very very far in advance, is there a way it could be done without falling victim to the 'deprivation of capital' polava?
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,895 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Theoretically if done well in advance with no expectation of needing care it could work but would have lots of other complications.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • wehalf wrote: »
    Right. Thanks for that. The state will take over her care costs when the asset runs out but, fair enough - it can't be done.
    You don't want to pay for your mother to be looked after?

    Isn't that why people save for their old age? To be looked after?
  • Fire_Fox
    Fire_Fox Posts: 26,026 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Trying to avoid who being 'gouged'? So you and any siblings didn't have any preventative treatment from the NHS nor education? Maybe run an advanced search before posting on the same topic and numerous others.
    Declutterbug-in-progress.⭐️⭐️⭐️ ⭐️⭐️
  • She is swapping the house that she can't live in for a new home that she can live in.
    Warning ..... I'm a peri-menopausal axe-wielding maniac ;)
  • I suggest you read this thread in the over 50s forum


    "Disgraceful son pushing parents out of own home."
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