Saturday Nite / Easter Party

lynsayjane

ZTD wrote: »

Hmm... Pray - do tell.

well i'm thinking about becoming a special constable in the police. thought it might be a good way of getting out the house and meeting people....men in uniform more specificaly!

System

ZTD wrote: »

Or something like self-confidence? Self-assurance can be offputting to some men.

Works for me - albeit not very often!

System

lynsayjane wrote: »

well i'm thinking about becoming a special constable in the police. thought it might be a good way of getting out the house and meeting people....men in uniform more specificaly!

A stripper?

ZTD

MinnieSpender wrote: »

Thanks, but no thanks. It's a bit too racy for me...

We've moved on from the watersports. Well - assuming that isn't the uniform LJ is talking about.

lynsayjane

ZTD wrote: »

Or something like self-confidence? Self-assurance can be offputting to some men.

i hope not, unease i can fix, self confidence??? should i become more of a pushover to find men but then end up used like before?

i guess it would help to know what men want, i just cannot get my head round them!

ZTD

lynsayjane wrote: »

well i'm thinking about becoming a special constable in the police. thought it might be a good way of getting out the house and meeting people....men in uniform more specificaly!

Do you have a strong stomach?

How much research have you done into it?

lynsayjane

lennymfo wrote: »

A stripper?

eh??? lenny i think you got sidetracked there and missed the announcement!!!!

System

lynsayjane wrote: »

i hope not, unease i can fix, self confidence??? should i become more of a pushover to find men but then end up used like before?

i guess it would help to know what men want, i just cannot get my head round them!

Depends. Some men would judge a one night stand as ' not the girl for them ' because your easy especially if they a re in the market for a realtionship. I would prefer heavy petting on the first date. I like to talk and find out what we have in common and hope its something similar.

lynsayjane

ZTD wrote: »

Do you have a strong stomach?

How much research have you done into it?

not much really, we had a recruitment day at my work and i was speaking to one of the guys about it and think it's something i'd like to find out more about.

as for strong stomach, yeah kinda. at uni i had to disect all sorts of things and it takes a strong stomach to kill a mouse then cut out it's intestines....

ZTD

lynsayjane wrote: »

i hope not, unease i can fix, self confidence??? should i become more of a pushover to find men but then end up used like before?

But is that why you're not attracting so many, because you won't be used any more?

lynsayjane wrote: »

i guess it would help to know what men want, i just cannot get my head round them!

Just be yourself - let them self-select. If they want vulnerable girls to abuse, let them be with someone else.

I know I look for things different to most other men - so I can't be of much help...