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Where would I stand?

Candy0107
Candy0107 Posts: 1,645 Forumite
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edited 8 September 2012 at 3:49AM in Deaths, funerals & probate
Hi,

I'm not too sure whether someone may be able to help to put my mind at ease.

Basically, there has been an argument in the family and my brother and his partner have cut themselves off from the rest of the family (there was a small disagreement that blew out of all proportions and they've not apologised for their part at all).

Our worry is that as they are the executurs of my nan's will
  1. Do they legally have to distribute the estate as requested
  2. Can they now turn round and say they do not want to deal with the will
  3. Do I have a right to see copy bills etc to ensure that they are not ripping off the estate?

    I think it is important to clear all of this up before we need to (my nan is 89 and not 100% health wise :( ). The estate is worth about £5k so it's not a fortune (we believe that nan should spend the money on herself :D)

    I don't want to come across as money grabbing or such like but when my father died (7 years ago) I was on auto pilot and not thinking for about 6 months afterwards (hence my debt) and I just want to get things clear in advance.

    Thanks in advance for your replies.

    Candy xx
Debts at the start of my journey - about £23,000 lightbulb moment 01.03.2007 (1st payment to CCCS)..Debt Free Date 25.06.2013 Deposit savings £17,000/£30,000

Comments

  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    After the funeral has been paid, there won't be much left to worry about but of course the executors have to comply with the law. If they don't want to be executors, they don't have to be.
  • tanith
    tanith Posts: 8,091 Forumite
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    I agree the funeral will take most of the estate , and they can relinquish executor duties should they wish. If Nan spends the money you won't need to worry about it anyway.
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  • Candy0107
    Candy0107 Posts: 1,645 Forumite
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    Thanks for the replies xxx

    Candy xxx
    Debts at the start of my journey - about £23,000 lightbulb moment 01.03.2007 (1st payment to CCCS)..Debt Free Date 25.06.2013 Deposit savings £17,000/£30,000
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