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Being flippant

Hi to all the posters on this forum, I know i have not posted my soa up and stuff like that and you might look at my posts and think why am i here. I dont want anyone to get the wrong impression. My debts are because i split from my hubby, And as i said in my thread smashed needs a hug. Debt and relationships go hand in hand most of the time. So please if anyone thinks i am being flippant about things i am not. And i apologise to anyone who thinks i am. Sometimes we all need to just get away from the everyday stuff and be lighthearted about things. Its an escape. And i apolgise if any of my posts offend anyone. Noone has actually said anything to me but i thought i would pre empt anything. Thank you all for being there. xxxxxxxxxxxx
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No Man is worth your tears,
And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!
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  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    Oh Smashed, don't go worrying about what people think. I've not posted my SOA either and all my debts are due to divorce, no child maintenance for 11 months, having to cut my hours due to being a single parent etc etc.
    Big hugs to you x
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Humour is all part of the healing process. Becoming debt free does not have to be a purgatory - a trial by ordeal. In fact you are more likely to fail if it is.

    I try alway to see the bright, light, and humourous side to everything.

    But I can understand your concerns. People have had a go at me for my sense of humour. But if it has made one person laugh, and their day just that touch lighter - then it was worth it.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • smashedbooboo
    smashedbooboo Posts: 4,558 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    B***er me thats ugly
    Night Owl Member No 1 :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Night owl member of the threesome. Rules are for fools to follow and wise men to be guided by
    No Man is worth your tears,
    And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    B***er me thats ugly

    There's worse...
    040818.hairy.man.jpg
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • rog2
    rog2 Posts: 11,650 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Posting an SOA is NOT a pre-requisite to being able to post on this forum - many of the more experienced posters have never posted their SOA.
    Posting an SOA simply makes it easier not only for others to grasp your situation and offer you the best advice, but also for you to keep track of things.
    That said, everyone is welcome to post their debt problems on this board - as Martin says - 'There is no such thing as a silly question'.
    You are most welcome.
    I am NOT, nor do I profess to be, a Qualified Debt Adviser. I have made MANY mistakes and have OFTEN been the unwitting victim of the the shamefull tactics of the Financial Industry.
    If any of my experiences, or the knowledge that I have gained from those experiences, can help anyone who finds themselves in similar circumstances, then my experiences have not been in vain.

    HMRC Bankruptcy Statistic - 26th October 2006 - 23rd April 2007 BCSC Member No. 7

    DFW Nerd # 166 PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBTS
  • rog2
    rog2 Posts: 11,650 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    ZTD wrote: »
    There's worse...
    040818.hairy.man.jpg

    Must you ?
    I am NOT, nor do I profess to be, a Qualified Debt Adviser. I have made MANY mistakes and have OFTEN been the unwitting victim of the the shamefull tactics of the Financial Industry.
    If any of my experiences, or the knowledge that I have gained from those experiences, can help anyone who finds themselves in similar circumstances, then my experiences have not been in vain.

    HMRC Bankruptcy Statistic - 26th October 2006 - 23rd April 2007 BCSC Member No. 7

    DFW Nerd # 166 PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBTS
  • smashedbooboo
    smashedbooboo Posts: 4,558 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    How did you get a picture of my ex hubby.
    Night Owl Member No 1 :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Night owl member of the threesome. Rules are for fools to follow and wise men to be guided by
    No Man is worth your tears,
    And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!
  • smashedbooboo
    smashedbooboo Posts: 4,558 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    :eek: Talking of which. I really do a need a shave
    Night Owl Member No 1 :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Night owl member of the threesome. Rules are for fools to follow and wise men to be guided by
    No Man is worth your tears,
    And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!
  • System
    System Posts: 178,361 Community Admin
    10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    :eek: Talking of which. I really do a need a shave

    Now you're talking! Get a grip woman! If I'm not giving advice or dishing out support, everything else is complete pish! Get a grip woman!!! Only joking!
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • joeblack066
    joeblack066 Posts: 1,757 Forumite
    My debts are due to 2 ex husbands, and more recently an ex fiance who actually stole money from me both before and after we split up! I know how you feel cos my moods go up and down, and I think we all tend to post as we are feeling on the day, so it can get a little confusing sometimes, but we are all here to support each other whatever the background, so take heart, and here's a hug for Smashed ***HUG***
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