We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

The MSE Forum Team would like to wish you all a very Happy New Year. However, we know this time of year can be difficult for some. If you're struggling during the festive period, here's a list of organisations that might be able to help
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
Has MSE helped you to save or reclaim money this year? Share your 2025 MoneySaving success stories!

spouse died credit card not registered to my address must I pay the bill

My spouse recently passed away and he had a affair for 13 years he had 2 credit cards one which at the time of his death was registered at the other address he was staying. I have just received the bill from the credit card company but as this card was registered at the other address he was residing I have not got any statements or the card it self.

So as it appears he was using this card for whatever else he was doing in his other life do I have to pay it when it is not registered to my address.
«1

Comments

  • bris
    bris Posts: 10,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    No, you don't have to pay any of his sole debts. You will only become liable for any joint debts that you may have had together.
    If there is an estate, the estate must pay it and any other debts, if no estate the debt dies with him.
  • if you are not the registered card holder/primary holder I do not think you are liable
    DEBTFREE AND PROUD!!
  • bris wrote: »
    No, you don't have to pay any of his sole debts. You will only become liable for any joint debts that you may have had together.
    If there is an estate, the estate must pay it and any other debts, if no estate the debt dies with him.

    Does that mean I have to sell my house to pay the debt?
  • CLAPTON
    CLAPTON Posts: 41,865 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Does that mean I have to sell my house to pay the debt?


    maybe a few facts might help

    what are his debts

    is there a will

    was assets does he have
    any life insurance policies
    pension pay outs

    how is the property owned
    is it mortgaged
  • CLAPTON wrote: »
    maybe a few facts might help

    what are his debts

    is there a will

    was assets does he have
    any life insurance policies
    pension pay outs

    how is the property owned
    is it mortgaged

    The only debt is this credit card as far as we know.

    yes there is a will everything was left to me.

    he has no life insurance.

    I get a pension from a pension he had.

    We owned the property jointly and the mortgage has recently been completed so now I am the sole owner.
  • antrobus
    antrobus Posts: 17,386 Forumite
    The only debt is this credit card as far as we know.

    yes there is a will everything was left to me.

    ...

    Then it will be the responsibility of the executor of said will to pay the deceased's debts, which would include the balances outstanding on the two credit cards.
  • agrinnall
    agrinnall Posts: 23,344 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    How much is the credit card debit?

    Pensions normally fall outside the estate, unless it's mentioned in the will I would expect the pension payments to be unaffected by the debt.

    I'm not sure about the house, I'm sure someone will know better than me but it's possible that as it was jointly owned it may also pass to you without forming part of the estate. However, if it does, then as sole beneficiary you will be responsible for the debt. It's extremely unlikely that the credit card company could force a sale to cover the debt, but they will still expect to be paid, so you may have to come to an agreemeny with them on a payment plan.
  • rochja
    rochja Posts: 564 Forumite
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/458014

    From your previous posts it would appear that you have been the beneficiary of your husband's estate. Any money from that estate should have been used in the first instance to pay creditors. If there was not enough cash and shares etc to pay creditors the issue then becomes one of whether your husband had an interest in the house at the time of his death. If so then some of the comments in the thread I have referred you to become moot.
    Life is like a box of chocolates - drop it and the soft centres splash everywhere
  • bris
    bris Posts: 10,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Property is normally outside the estate and goes to the spouse so that should be safe, as is any life insurance policies and pensions set up with you as the beneficiary. Funeral cost's can also be paid first before including it in the estate. If you are the executor, a little professional help may be needed for guidance.
  • antrobus wrote: »
    Then it will be the responsibility of the executor of said will to pay the deceased's debts, which would include the balances outstanding on the two credit cards.

    Right this now throws up the problem of that because the card is located at this woman's address and according to his credit report(which I checked after his death and finding out about the affair) he was also getting the statements sent there so I have no account number (which they require) and no card (which they say needs to be destroyed) so I have none of the required stuff that is needed (apart from the death certificate) to close the account down so she could be potentially spending on it and without the account number or the card I have no power to stop this.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.9K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.7K Spending & Discounts
  • 246K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 602.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.8K Life & Family
  • 260K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.