Benefits for part time course question

Dunroamin

shoe*gal wrote: »

If there is no benefits available to him he needs a kick up the bum to go on a proper job hunt then. Either that or reign in his clothes shopping and social activities.

Many parents wouldn't still be forking out for clothes and social activities for someone of 18 so that's easily sorted. Is this actually the problem rather than the relatives not being able to afford his keep?

shoe*gal_2

BigAunty wrote: »

Well that's not a benefit problem but a relationship problem, one where he feels a sense of entitlement. Those pensioners can't be exploited without their permission - if they are dishing out money they can ill afford, then of course, he has no motivation to sort out student finance, benefits, from his parents or employment himself and they are enabling him to think he deserves and should expect new clothes and a social life at their expense.

If they cut off the money, then it would force him to be more independent.

I couldn't agree with you more. If he was my child he'd have to fund his own activities. The family told me they can't afford to carry on paying for everything but if there was some discipline and his funds were cut off he'd soon shift himself. They were the same with the older sibling - throwing money at the kids because they'd had a bad time is not the answer.

Anyway I was hoping there was some help for them because they will struggle to pay for everything for this college course (I believe it's a FE one but could be wrong). He should take some responsibility for himself though but getting that through to him wouldn't be easy and I'm sure they'd not appreciate my views on it. I think a nudge to student finance when he starts college is the only option.

Thank you for all comments/opinions/advice.

ladyrider260

Go to the college guidance centre. Mosy colleges have whats called a 'learner support fund' which he may be eligible for. That helps pay for expenses such as books etc. He may be eligible for JSA BUT he will have to be actively seeking work and pledge that he will give up his course if it interferes with paid work. From what you've said, it sounds like pointing him towards JSA is not a good idea. Maybe try the LSF.