What to do?

Lucylou1984

This is a random first post but have been a lurker for a little while now and am now after some advice.
I am a single 28 year old female who 2 weeks ago met someone. We stayed up talking for hours and hours and when it came to leave we didn't swap numbers as both our phone batteries had died. However I do know that he has an online profile as this was mentioned several times and am considering making contact with him on this. My issue is that I don't want to look like a stalker, any opinions please?
Thanks for reading.

Sambucus_Nigra

Are there any other ways of re-meeting up? ie do you live in the same town/go to the same gym/etc etc?

Lucylou1984

Nope, afraid not, no other chance of meeting or would not even be considering this!

mildred1978

Lucylou1984 wrote: »

This is a random first post but have been a lurker for a little while now and am now after some advice.
I am a single 28 year old female who 2 weeks ago met someone. We stayed up talking for hours and hours and when it came to leave we didn't swap numbers as both our phone batteries had died. However I do know that he has an online profile as this was mentioned several times and am considering making contact with him on this. My issue is that I don't want to look like a stalker, any opinions please?
Thanks for reading.

Whatever happened to writing your number on their arm in eyeliner/lipstick/permanent marker?

(FWIW I get the feeling he's not single )

tea_lover

When you found out you weren't able to swap numbers (seriously?? Get a pen people) did he mention the profile then? If he'd said something along the lines of "my phone's not working, send me a message on fb" then I'd go for it. If not I'd probably leave it. There are plenty of ways to swap numbers or arrange to meet again without needing a working phone.

Sambucus_Nigra

Do it then. But do it in a 'how you doing' style rather than a 'i really love you' style.

Wellyboots6

Do it!

If you don't contact him you will never know.

He may see it as a bit stalkerish, but I doubt it. I imagine he would be flattered. Also, he may be wanting to contact you but not know how, so may be hoping you think to contact him on his profile!

Sambucus_Nigra

mildred1978 wrote: »

Whatever happened to writing your number on their arm in eyeliner/lipstick/permanent marker?

(FWIW I get the feeling he's not single )

A friend of mine once carved his number into an orange he got from behind the bar with his key - they are still together [18 years].

Lucylou1984

Thanks for all the responses. Dont get me wrong, this isn't love however we got on well and would be keen to meet up again. The situation was that we couldn't take numbers although I didn't think of the eyeliner to be honest! I suppose even if I do make a fool of myself it's not the end of the world.

tyllwyd

I can't see any harm in doing that (assuming he's not a nutter, of course). If you just contact him to say hi, he has the choice whether or not to respond - it only becomes stalker-ish if he doesn't reply and you keep pestering him.

thatlemming

To be honest, what have you got to lose by sending him a simple message? Nothing? Go for it.