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MY journey with debt, being a mummy and starting my own business !!

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  • Yes first time ive been in a car with air con - how sad am i LOL
  • Hey :wave:

    Glad you had a good time and didn't spend to much :j

    I know what you mean with the not asking him to come back. I've been with my BF 5 years next month. Ive never mentioned marrage as I want him to ask he because he wants to but i'm getting a bit bored of waiting now not sure if men just don't think and sometimes need a nudge in the right direction.

    xx
    emergency fund:£179/ £1000 Uniform/car fund:£
    boys savings £
    Christmas £60 bday £40 holiday £

    Family loan £7000/£5425
    Credit Card 0% £2015.32 eon £435 overdrafts £1500/£1300
  • Glad you had a good time, pants about the car but yay to the courtesy car and tax credits.

    Fingers crossed your DP moves back soon. I know what you mean about not wanting to ask him, but could he be waiting for you to do so? Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • Aww bless you it must be hard. Glad you had a good night thought.

    When growing up all my parents would do was argue. When we we're in bed and when they thought we we're asleep. It was awful. When i'd finished my GCSE's they split up and are both so much happier now. It's ironic how they stayed together for me and my sister but didn't realise that by staying together they we're actually putting us throught hell. I'm sure i'd of been a lot happier growing up if they we're seperate at least then they'd of been happy. If you get what I mean.

    I'm not sure why I mentioned that (it seemed relivant) I'm not in anyway suggesting this is what your like. I just thought it might help seeing what it could have turned into if you'd of both carried on. This break could be what makes you both learn ''that you don't know what you've got till it's gone''.

    Hope you have a good day today.

    xxxxxxxxxx
    emergency fund:£179/ £1000 Uniform/car fund:£
    boys savings £
    Christmas £60 bday £40 holiday £

    Family loan £7000/£5425
    Credit Card 0% £2015.32 eon £435 overdrafts £1500/£1300
  • mummytogirls
    mummytogirls Posts: 6,578 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi Smarties,

    Sorry to hear you are feeling down, hopefully today will be better :).

    Re the toaster we had to throw ours out too, not for the same reason ha! Weve just been using the grill but it takes ages!

    x x x
    Mummytogirls x

  • :wave:

    I also don't have a toaster. Never got around to buying one. The bottom of my oven is covered in crumbs from making toast :rotfl:

    xx
    emergency fund:£179/ £1000 Uniform/car fund:£
    boys savings £
    Christmas £60 bday £40 holiday £

    Family loan £7000/£5425
    Credit Card 0% £2015.32 eon £435 overdrafts £1500/£1300
  • Choc-addict
    Choc-addict Posts: 1,894 Forumite
    Hi Smarties,

    Just wanted to wish you lots of luck in your debt journey, i'm sure you'll get there in no time.

    Well done you on starting your own business too!

    Re situation with OH. I went through this with my now hubby. He moved out for 4 months and we slowly worked on things, talking and enjoying each others company. It took time but we are stronger than we ever have been now, got married in April just gone. It's really horrible at the time but all I can stay strong don't just think about your OH make sure you take the time out to think about yourself, what you want from life and your relationship. I'm sure you will be fine.

    Have subscribed :) x
  • Hope you've had a better day today Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
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