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Had a bit of a shock & need to get debts sorted

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  • ikkle87
    ikkle87 Posts: 8,449 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Sorry to hear about your OH's job. You've been given some great advice so far, especially about what cuts to make, it might seem hard at first but it's worth it in the long run. Definitely take a look at the old style board lots of tips and advice on how to save money xx
    You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

    xx Mama to a gorgeous Cranio Baby xx
  • mildredalien
    mildredalien Posts: 1,057 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Hey icklepiggle, well done for realising that you need to get a grip on your finances! You've already got some good advice here from peeps, it will be useful to see your new SOA and see where you are without your husband's wage and with the reduced travel/HP costs associated if you get rid of his car. As it stands if you can make the savings people suggest you could save well over £500 a month! It's surprising how much you realise you can have spare to throw at your debts if you look at what you are spending - I went from paying bare minimums to over £550 a month towards my debts with barely a change in my lifestyle just thinking a lot more carefully about what I bought, the deals I was able to get and what I actually needed or wanted.

    Even if DH does get a new job quickly (fingers crossed!) you are spending more than you both earn each month, so it's worth figuring out what is essential, what is desirable, what you can learn to live without, and what you are frittering money away on :)

    Also check you have covered for all your child expenses (pocket money, school expenses etc.) within your other areas in the SOA (you may already have put this into entertainment or somewhere)
    Savings target: £25000/£25000
    :beer: :T


  • We have:

    rewritten DH's CV & applied for a couple of jobs

    taken a picnic to the park today & not bought anything while we were there; used loyalty points to buy a coffee

    To do:

    look at selling car

    JSA application

    re-do SOA without DH in a job

    thx
    Emma
    Back after paying off DMP in 2014

    Want to make sure debt doesn’t start creeping up again
  • We have:

    rewritten DH's CV & applied for a couple of jobs

    taken a picnic to the park today & not bought anything while we were there; used loyalty points to buy a coffee

    To do:

    look at selling car

    JSA application - DONE!

    re-do SOA without DH in a job

    thx
    Emma

    progress already....
    Back after paying off DMP in 2014

    Want to make sure debt doesn’t start creeping up again
  • ms_london
    ms_london Posts: 2,852 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Hi Emma

    Sorry to hear about your misfortune...

    Even by halving your grocery spend, putting a stop on the clothing and home improvements budget temporarily that leaves you nearly £500 a month better off, not to enticing the other areas you could cut down on.

    Well done on doing the JSA application so fast.

    Have you got enough groceries at home to stretch out or a while? If you head to the Oldstyle board thy can help with cutting your food bill amongst other things xx
  • Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 2
    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 2325
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 442 inc JSA & Child benefit
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2767
    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 805
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 119 averaged £143 p mth for 10 months
    Electricity............................. 115 gas & electric
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 33.5
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 41 just got new iphone 24 mth contract :( £31 p.mth + £10 sim only
    TV Licence.............................. 12.5
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 40.65 line rental + broadband+ sky
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 300
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 150
    Road tax................................ 15
    Car Insurance........................... 40
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50
    Car parking............................. 15
    Other travel............................ 20
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 20
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 25
    Buildings insurance..................... 33
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 31mortgage life insurance £9 for DH; £5.50 for me; £17 p. mth family life policy - monthly amount paid out - not sure if need this one
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 60
    Haircuts................................ 37 kids are free as do it myself - might need to space out my hair colour more (!)
    Entertainment........................... 100
    Holiday................................. 50
    Emergency fund.......................... 25
    Cleaner................................. 71.5 on 3 month notice period
    Lovefilm dvd rental..................... 6
    Household improvements.................. 25
    Endowment............................... 81.13 part of mortgage is interest only
    Boiler cover............................ 27.25loathe to get rid as our boiler breaks down twice a year without fail & hence price keeps going up
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2422.53

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 190000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 2500
    Other assets............................ 10000
    Total Assets............................ 202500

    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 145000...(805)......6.19
    Total secured & HP debts...... 145000....-.........-
    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Nationwide credit .............2222.7....80.39.....17.9
    Barclaycard gold...............7560.01...173.1.....6.9
    M&S credit.....................5137.3....103.5.....18.9
    Nationwide (2).................4800......99.71.....17.9
    Halifax credit.................1558.22...16........0
    MBNA...........................850.......25........0
    Hilton Hhonors.................3450.13...101.......16.9
    Total unsecured debts..........25578.36..598.7.....-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 2,767
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,422.53
    Available for debt repayments........... 344.47
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 598.7
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -254.23
    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 202,500
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -145,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -25,578.36
    Net Assets.............................. 31,921.64
    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using IE browser.




    So what to do next guys? We are still £250 short a month. Wondering about a mortgage holiday but would rather not.

    DH is being very unhelpful & still hasn't sorted selling the car so we just had to pay £570 insurance & £340 monthly payment & tax due at end of month!!!!!! I may lose my cool with him very soon....



    Back after paying off DMP in 2014

    Want to make sure debt doesn’t start creeping up again
  • savingmummy
    savingmummy Posts: 2,915 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 2
    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 2325
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 442 inc JSA & Child benefit tax credits?
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2767
    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 805
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 119 averaged £143 p mth for 10 months change to 12 monthly for now.
    Electricity............................. 115 gas & electric Try and cut back here, make sure they are not estimating bills for you. Give true reading if so.
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 33.5
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 41 just got new iphone 24 mth contract :( £31 p.mth + £10 sim only
    TV Licence.............................. 12.5
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 40.65 line rental + broadband+ sky call and haggle explain your in a bit of difficulty sometimes they do an offer for 3/6mths to avoid losing you!
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 300 you can easily reduce this meal plan buy no luxeries you can`t afford
    Clothing................................ 50 is this needed for now? Thats a lot a month!
    Petrol/diesel........................... 150
    Road tax................................ 15
    Car Insurance........................... 40
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 50
    Car parking............................. 15
    Other travel............................ 20
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 20
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 25
    Buildings insurance..................... 33
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 31mortgage life insurance £9 for DH; £5.50 for me; £17 p. mth family life policy - monthly amount paid out - not sure if need this one
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 60 I would cut this back and just do cards/small gift except your own children. You can`t afford to buy for others.
    Haircuts................................ 37 kids are free as do it myself - might need to space out my hair colour more (!) DIY/check out local colleges needing models.
    Entertainment........................... 100 cut back here a bit more!
    Holiday................................. 50
    Emergency fund.......................... 25
    Cleaner................................. 71.5 on 3 month notice period How long left?
    Lovefilm dvd rental..................... 6
    Household improvements.................. 25 you can`t afford to do this unfortunately put on hold!
    Endowment............................... 81.13 part of mortgage is interest only
    Boiler cover............................ 27.25loathe to get rid as our boiler breaks down twice a year without fail & hence price keeps going up
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2422.53

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 190000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 2500
    Other assets............................ 10000
    Total Assets............................ 202500

    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 145000...(805)......6.19
    Total secured & HP debts...... 145000....-.........-
    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Nationwide credit .............2222.7....80.39.....17.9
    Barclaycard gold...............7560.01...173.1.....6.9
    M&S credit.....................5137.3....103.5.....18.9
    Nationwide (2).................4800......99.71.....17.9
    Halifax credit.................1558.22...16........0
    MBNA...........................850.......25........0
    Hilton Hhonors.................3450.13...101.......16.9
    Total unsecured debts..........25578.36..598.7.....-

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 2,767
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,422.53
    Available for debt repayments........... 344.47
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 598.7
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -254.23
    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 202,500
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -145,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -25,578.36
    Net Assets.............................. 31,921.64
    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using IE browser.




    So what to do next guys? We are still £250 short a month. Wondering about a mortgage holiday but would rather not.

    DH is being very unhelpful & still hasn't sorted selling the car so we just had to pay £570 insurance & £340 monthly payment & tax due at end of month!!!!!! I may lose my cool with him very soon....



    Hope you manage to find some cutbacks somewhere.
    Its very hard but you can do it!


    Do you have things you can sell on ebay? Old childrens bits/clothing etc.
    DebtFree FEB 2010!
    Slight blip in 2013 - Debtfree Aug 2014 :j

    Savings £132/£1000.
  • Have you looked on price comparison sites for elec/gas? Going via quidco would help too!
    :rotfl:
  • You could sell iphone and get basic phone if just started new contact too?
    :rotfl:
  • * contract
    :rotfl:
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